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Childminder's dog has bitten DD

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Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 17:07

Last week my childminder's dog bit my DD on the face. What would you do? I feel like I have lost trust in their judgement and allowing this to happen.

OP posts:
Daisytails · 28/03/2025 18:57

Roseyposey11 · 28/03/2025 18:51

What a nasty, vindictive thing to write. Yes, it’s an awful situation that should never, ever have happened. But you don’t know what action the childminder has taken and to want to ‘destroy some one’s business’ is just appalling. She may be an otherwise brilliant minder who is equally appalled and devastated by what has happened and has taken full responsibility for it.

Because it’s easier for people to say that, easier to say the dog is dangerous and needs to be killed. It’s easier for them to vilify the childminder and want to destroy them. Doing that is far easier than hearing anything else because people are just ignorant, they just don’t care unfortunately. There could be so many reasons this has happened and I’m sure the childminder is absolutely devastated. I know I would be if I owned a dog who had bitten a child. The OP hasn’t said whatsoever what actions the childminder has taken since the incident, the childminder can’t defend themselves.

Orangeandpinknails · 28/03/2025 18:57

Evan456 · 28/03/2025 18:14

I’ve heard this sort of thing before, whilst I agree the dog should be away from the children, how do you all know that something nasty wasn’t done to the dog? At the end of the day they are living breathing creatures and have to put up with a lot from us humans, be it big or small ones. I always wonder why it’s always the dogs fault, she hasn’t told us all the circumstances

Its a child!.. you can't blame a child who is at their childminders! It's a business and they shouldn't have a dog around the child

beardediris · 28/03/2025 18:59

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 28/03/2025 18:11

But this is just taking the whole thread off track! It’s not an argument about big dogs and little dogs but all dogs can bite and cause damage. The face is the CM should not have a dog anywhere near her charges. Big or small.

Someone up thread said she was fed up with people saying big digs are more dangerous than small dogs I was responding to this.
I 100% agree the fault does not lie with the dog or the child or the parents the fault lies firmly at the door of the CM.

DollyLeggs · 28/03/2025 18:59

A dog bite does not automatically mean the dog is pts. There is not enough information regarding the incident here.

Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 28/03/2025 19:02

Orangeandpinknails · 28/03/2025 18:57

Its a child!.. you can't blame a child who is at their childminders! It's a business and they shouldn't have a dog around the child

This

Katypp · 28/03/2025 19:07

TheJollyMoose · 27/03/2025 17:09

I would have reported it to the police, and I would be plastering it all over social media that she has a dangerous dog that needs to be PTS and nobody should be using her.

I would destroy her childminding business so she never worked in the industry again.

I do find it bizarre that some people are so caught up in the drama and self-righteous indignation that they are prepared to destroy someone's livelihood without actually knowing what happened.
The OP gave no context in her original post, yet there you are, pitchfork out, ready to destroy someone.
I'm sure you think you are so,so right, but really ...?

beardediris · 28/03/2025 19:08

Daisytails · 28/03/2025 18:57

Because it’s easier for people to say that, easier to say the dog is dangerous and needs to be killed. It’s easier for them to vilify the childminder and want to destroy them. Doing that is far easier than hearing anything else because people are just ignorant, they just don’t care unfortunately. There could be so many reasons this has happened and I’m sure the childminder is absolutely devastated. I know I would be if I owned a dog who had bitten a child. The OP hasn’t said whatsoever what actions the childminder has taken since the incident, the childminder can’t defend themselves.

Whatever the reason this happened the CM had a duty of care and she wasn’t supervising the child sufficiently to ensure it didn’t happen. The OP said the CM said her child ran into a room startled the dog and it bit her in the face. This screams insufficient supervision of dog and child.
If for example she was on the loo and couldn’t supervise the child she needed to ensure dog and child were not in position where the dog felt a need to bite the child. Personally I’m not a fan of stair gates to separate dogs from children little hands can easily get through the bars. The dog should be behind a shut door that the child is unable to open.

BlueSkies1981 · 28/03/2025 19:08

It might have already been asked but I’m presuming this has been reported to ofsted by the childminder?

Sharptonguedwoman · 28/03/2025 19:09

Jugglingitall85 · 27/03/2025 17:07

Last week my childminder's dog bit my DD on the face. What would you do? I feel like I have lost trust in their judgement and allowing this to happen.

You need to find out what triggered this action. Yes it’s awful but what was the background.

Daftypants · 28/03/2025 19:10

I don’t think, if I were you ,I could trust this particular child minder again .
I would be looking for another placement if I were you ..
I love dogs , have my own dog but interaction between children and dogs need to be closely supervised.
There is also a big difference between an overexcited dog nipping in play / excitement , a warning nip , and an aggressive bite .
Most dogs give a warning growl before a nip or bite and this was obviously not noticed ?
I don’t blame the dog , I do think the child minder was to blame for not separating the dog from the children if she could not closely supervise .
Children need to learn how to behave appropriately around dogs too , no teasing , no pulling at them

Shannon300976 · 28/03/2025 19:13

beardediris · 28/03/2025 17:20

How many people in the UK have been killed by a chihuahua or a cavalier kings Charles spaniel grabbing hold of the carotid artery and killing a person. Honestly I’ve never read anything so ridiculous. I have an 8 kg dog in tte highly unlikely event that he attacked me I’m pretty sure I could defend myself and I’m not Miss Universe by any stretch of the imagination. He had a small mouth I can’t fit my hand into it so he would not be able to get his mouth around my calf or thigh and you don’t need to be a dog anatomy specialist to see that he has very small jaw muscles in fact he struggles to bite through his kibble so lacks a powerful bite. At 8 kg he is not going to knock me to the ground although I guess I might trip over him. In contrast my young dog is 16 kg again in the highly unlikely event he attacked me it could be a different story my hand easily fits in his mouth he could easily get his jaw round my calf and probably my thigh it’s obvious he has much larger jaw muscles and therefore a more powerful bite. If I was caught of guard he might knock me to the ground. My friend has a 26 kg dog that can effortlessly knock me over (and has in it’s exuberance) I suspect if a dog really attacks you once you’re on the ground you’re chances of survival diminish. Secondly when you read about these dreadful dog attacks it often says the dog was shaking the child like it was a ragdoll my 8kg dog would struggle to shake a pheasant let alone a child. This is why big dogs pose more of a risk than small dogs.

Well now you've explained the small dog mentality thanks confirmed exactly what I thought. And obviously nothing happens outside of the UK I gather lol. I've seen a small dog take someone by the throat so I wouldn't call it ridiculous but you're obviously small minded and not worth anymore of my energy.

Fido5836 · 28/03/2025 19:14

Sharptonguedwoman · 28/03/2025 19:09

You need to find out what triggered this action. Yes it’s awful but what was the background.

Does it make a difference? A three year old should not be left to be in a position to be unattended with a dog, especially when the person is being trusted and paid to look after them.

Scrimblescromble · 28/03/2025 19:14

Jugglingitall85 · 28/03/2025 07:23

Really? Claims. She’s just turned 3. Of course 3 yr olds do silly things. Or do you think they have the same mental reasoning as adults.

do you know if the CM has done an incident report/form? I vaguely remember things like this have to be reported to Ofsted and a report available for future customers.

I looked round a CM’s and then when I looked up their Ofsted reports there was a child injured in their care and it really put me off as the report was clear that they weren’t appropriately supervised. While I know accidents can happen it put them on the ‘no’ pile and I think other parents should have all the info to make an informed choice with your CM in future

beardediris · 28/03/2025 19:15

I’m not convinced the dog needs to be PTS after this episode. Many years ago a friend who owned horses failed to supervise her 5 yr old child properly the child peddled his scooter into her horse’s back legs and got kicked in the head causing a large brain haemorrhage. It wasn’t the horses fault or the child’s the fault lay with the parent, the horse was frightened and it reacted as frightened horses do you cannot remove that natural instinct however many carrots you feed your horse. No one suggested putting the horse to sleep. It’s the same with the dog it was apparently startled and reacted. It was doing what a startled dog in that situation can do.

Zaichik · 28/03/2025 19:15

Report it to Ofsted. They can suspend or even cancel the childminder if there is a risk to children.

Sharptonguedwoman · 28/03/2025 19:20

Fido5836 · 28/03/2025 19:14

Does it make a difference? A three year old should not be left to be in a position to be unattended with a dog, especially when the person is being trusted and paid to look after them.

I think it does. I hadn't realised that OP's DD was 3 when I wrote that, honestly.
Was imagining a rather older child teasing the dog.

Shannon300976 · 28/03/2025 19:21

beardediris · 28/03/2025 18:02

I couldn’t agree more and have already stated thus up thread but this idea that small dogs are as dangerous if not more dangerous than a large dog is obviously ridiculous. It’s no coincidence that XL bullies (the clue is in the name) are responsible for more deaths than other dog breeds.

I didn't say that a small dog was more dangerous then a large dog. I said all dogs should not be underestimated and to state as you did earlier that you would forgive a small dog for biting an 8 yr old in the face is absolutely insane.

beardediris · 28/03/2025 19:22

Gosh you’re hostile! Actually I’m far from small minded. Actually as an HCP who often sees dig bites I’d love to see some global figures detailing the number of people who had there carotid artery (interior or exterior although I guess in the case of a small dog exterior is more likely) bitten by small dog and then bled to death.

Seelybe · 28/03/2025 19:23

Sorry, a young child should never be left unsupervised with a dog, end of. For this to be possible in a childminding situation is negligent and could have been so much worse. I would report to Ofsted and make a claim on her public liability insurance for the harm to your child and distress to you.

vickylou78 · 28/03/2025 19:25

LandSharksAnonymous · 28/03/2025 08:06

@beardediris actually, I breed dogs and have kids. At one point I had a litter of puppies, three adult dogs and two kids under five. So I do know what I’m talking about when it comes to kids and dogs.

And it may be a shock, but my kids have never been bitten nor been hurt in anyway. Part of that is teaching my kids how to act around dogs from when they are incredibly young (which OP has failed to do) part of that is vigilance (which the childminder failed) and part of that is just being a responsible adult and not setting a child up to fail (which both failed).

It’s awful what happened to OPs child - and I do not deny that - but OP does have to admit to her share of the blame.

This is bollocks!! Op doesn't have responsibility for this incident.

The childminder should not have a dog and a child in her care unsupervised full stop. It's negligence.

We don't have any dogs in our household (as many children don't have) so my children wouldn't at 3yrs old know how to behave with a dog.
As a childminder she should not expect to have dog trained 3 year olds....she should base her plans and safety measures on worse case scenario and expect and assume the children do not know how to behave with dogs.

beardediris · 28/03/2025 19:25

Shannon300976 · 28/03/2025 19:21

I didn't say that a small dog was more dangerous then a large dog. I said all dogs should not be underestimated and to state as you did earlier that you would forgive a small dog for biting an 8 yr old in the face is absolutely insane.

I’m not insane because I’ve never once said I’d forgive a small dog for biting an 8yr old in the face.

Bunny44 · 28/03/2025 19:29

LandSharksAnonymous · 28/03/2025 07:39

Then why did you send her to a childminder with a dog?

I wasn’t blaming your child. I was blaming you and saying you were as negligent (given your child ‘does silly things’ and ‘may have been rough’) as the childminder. The fact you think it’s okay that your child doesn’t know how to act around household pets makes it even worse IMO that you put her with a childminder with a dog.

yes, the childminder is at fault but you are also responsible for what happened

Edited

Wow unbelievable comment. You must be a troll or something. And if your not you're part of the problem we have so many out of control dogs in this country. The childminder is legally 100% responsible for her animal as are all animal owners, especially if they're running a business looking after children. It is legally completely her responsibility. You think the police are going to take into account what a 3 year old did? Nope. Ridiculous thing to say to OP.

@Jugglingitall85 Ignore comments like this. What happened was extremely serious also in the eyes of the law for many reasons. It could have been much worse. The number of owners whose dogs kill and then they say they've never done anything harmful before... The childminder is responsible for all risks in her house and the child cannot be blamed. It's like saying well the child burnt herself on an iron that was on... Oh but she should have known not to touch an iron 🙄

UltraHorse · 28/03/2025 19:50

What does your child want are they afraid of the dog if not why not do they like and trust the childminder things happen but your child's happiness matters did your child pull the dogs tail or anything

Retiredfromearlyyears · 28/03/2025 19:54

Do not send your child back. This person needs to be removed from the Childminders Register. Did she seek medical advice for your child? You must report this I identify to both the registering body and the police.

TomatoSandwiches · 28/03/2025 19:59

LandSharksAnonymous · 28/03/2025 07:39

Then why did you send her to a childminder with a dog?

I wasn’t blaming your child. I was blaming you and saying you were as negligent (given your child ‘does silly things’ and ‘may have been rough’) as the childminder. The fact you think it’s okay that your child doesn’t know how to act around household pets makes it even worse IMO that you put her with a childminder with a dog.

yes, the childminder is at fault but you are also responsible for what happened

Edited

No, she isn't. Don't be daft about a 3-year-old not being taught about dogs. The whole blame is on the childminder alone.

Jesus christ, some people.

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