I need sleep too - it just disappointed me that you took the attitude that she is a CM therefore she is right, and if what she said wasn't right, then what she actually meant was something else that was right.
The thread is now lighthearted because loads of other people have piled in and are making fun, though there is still some argument - I would not describe it as amicable. You did not say forgive her her stupid thread, but you did say
"I would hazzard a guess that Tori has probably had problems with this partular parent. Most parents are wonderful and have every right to do other things without their children, when they are in paid care. However, sometimes, we do get parents who don't pay on time, are habitually late, don't sent the right equipment, clothes, nappies, SHOES! (I kid you not!) and I would imagine that this was the straw that broke the camels back.
I really wish it hadn't degenerated into a massive row, over there, Tori needed to sound off. Her only fault was probably not posting somewhere, where others have been there.
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which I read as forgive her for posting something general when she means something specific that is completely different and in the wrong section - so when I said her stupid thread I was paraphrasing
Of course I will banter with you all elsewhere, it just disappointed me that you couldn't see when one of your own was BU