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Paid childcare

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Tip babysitter? Leave snacks?

7 replies

Ally638 · 30/03/2023 23:49

I’m leaving my 20 month for the first time with a babysitter. She says she charges £10 an hour, we will be away for 4 hours. Do I just give £40, or do i tip / give extra? What’s the done thing? And do I leave snacks, or money for a takeaway or anything?

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MrsDoylesDoily · 30/03/2023 23:50

Just get a few nice snacks in.

WineorAppleCrumble · 30/03/2023 23:52

Show her where biscuis, tea, coffee etc are kept too.

Barleysugar86 · 30/03/2023 23:57

I never got tipped. Snacks available were always appreciated.

tiredpuppymum · 31/03/2023 00:04

Just tea, coffee and a few snacks will do. No tip required but just don't me late back. If you're even 10 mins late, offer her £45 atleast.

nannynick · 31/03/2023 09:24

Pay £40, in whatever method of payment has been agreed (cash, bank transfer). If you get delayed, let them know and keep them updated, and pay extra - round up to next 30 minutes or 1 hour.

Show them where to find tea/coffee/milk. Leave some snacks out - a little plate with selection of wrapped biscuits, or leave out the biscuit tin. Packet of crisps perhaps.

If they are working at a time where they would be eating evening meal at your home, then I would expect that an agreement regarding that was made before the booking. I have had clients provide me with a pre-determined ready-meal (so they knew what I would eat) for example which I reheated in the oven/microwave.

thymewaster · 31/03/2023 09:46

Buy a pack of share bag crisps and Malteasers or biscuits but let her know she can help herself to tea coffee milk and toast if wanted

Ally638 · 31/03/2023 20:45

Thanks everyone!!

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