Condition:
This is my first time to be a nanny, at first I think this job is quite easy as I first come, the children had accepted me quickly and having fun with me.
However, after few times I send the 3 years old baby to nursery as required by her mom, she start rejecting me, when I wanna feed her, she shout at me and ask me to walk away.
and she have a really unstable emotion now, sometimes she wants her mom and sometimes she shout at her mom and say 'bad mummy!'
She cried really loud everytime we mention keywords like 'nursery' and 'teacher' . Everytime we walk / send her in front of Nursery, she cried really hard as well.
What should I do?
- To make her like me back and accept me?
Second condition:
There is a 2 years old baby in this house as well. She always want her mother, but her mom hope that she can follow me and listen to me so that her mom have personal time to do her own things.
What should I do to make her like me more?
I notice that when she first left her mom she will cry, but after a while, If she get attracted to other things, she will stop crying. How I make her accept me?