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i mind a little boy who was 1yr old in May this year (had him since jan 06)
mum was unsure when she first visited me as i had concret outside so i paid to have the whole outside decked so she was happy
anyway today we got in from school run and his mum is normally here waiting but not today so i got him out of the pram and let him play out
he was on the trike and when getting off caught his foot and fell onto the floor biting his lip
there was blood
i picked him up and took him indoor to clean him up just as mum arrived
she started shouting at me telling me he was too little to go on the trike
i was dealing with the child
she took the child off me and started shaking and crying
i calmed her down and the bleeding stopped so they left
looking through insident book this is his first accident
may i just add her elder son aged 4 who has just started school has just been allowed to walk with rains rather than sit in the pram incase he falls or runs into the road

I kept a child once when I hated her being here. Even the lads (my 2) changed their behaviour because she was a little b.

When I gave the mum 4 weeks notice because of this (she was expecting it as she had an incedent report every time she picked her up from scratching to biting to trying to strangle my kitten!!), I felt like a huge weight had been lifted, and the house got back to normal again.

Go with your heart, as your head will try and rationalise things!

thanks twoandabump