We recently had no option but to dismiss our au pair on the grounds of gross negligence.
We believe she has recently (last 3 weeks) found another au pair job. Unsurprisingly in the circumstances, we have not been asked to provide a reference. More information has come to light since her dismissal, and we feel obliged to warn her new family of her unsuitability to be looking after young children. Do you think we should try and reach out to her new family, and if so, is MN a good place to do so?