Not sure where to post but would like some opinions..
Long and boring, sorry!
I'm going back to work soon and my middle child is 2.5.Whilst on maternity leave he has continued to go to nursery 2 days per week where he is happy and settled.He had mild speech delay and was a less confident child than my eldest and this is partly why I kept him at nursery even though I wasn't working and he has come on amazingly, now speaking, singing and socializing well.
I've arranged to have a nanny to cover my 3 work days when I go back in January as it was the best solution for school pick-ups and fail-safe cover for 3 DCs.
My middle child will be able to go to pre-school at his brother's school next September and I was going to discontinue with nursery until then.
I'm now having second thoughts though especially as nursery will be free after his birthday in March due to the 15 hours thing.
I was thinking of keeping him in nursery for 1/2 , or 1 day per week until September.
This will make the childcare even more expensive but only until March.
But is it actually necessary?
If he went to nursery on one of the days that I am off, I would spend even less time with him.Is it better to be at home( or , more likely, at a toddler group) with mum and baby brother, or at a nursery with children his own age?Or I could put him in nursery for one of the nanny days and ask her to do a pick-up or drop off, but is this just a waste of money when I'm already paying for her to do childcare?
And do you think he would miss out if he suddenly has to spend 3 days with nanny and baby brother and doesn't go to nursery/pre-school for a whole 9 months?
Or am I overthinking the whole thing?
If you are still reading, thank you and what do you think?