Having a major panic. DS starts school in Sept & DM who was meant to be moving up here to help with wrap around childcare has changed her mind.
Now DS's first choice of school is down as 15 mins by car in opposite direction to DH & I's works. The catchment area school here is too appalling to even contemplate & even if we could find anything in the right direction it would be no use as our jobs are inflexible so need to be in by 9 and not out until 5.00. To top it all, I don't drive: DH drops me off & I get the bus back (I have tried & failed many many times).
So I guess we need a nanny? Childminder? For picking up at 8 & taking to school for 9, nothing during the day then picking up again at 3.15 & keeping until 6pm. Plus full day care on weekdays through school holidays. Does this kind of care exist & what does it cost?
I'd been looking forward to paying less than the 4 years of nursery do far but that's not looking likely. I'm also terrified of being reliant on 1 person in case they are sick / unreliable. Really wondering if I'll have to quit work 