Hi Frakkinstein, thanks for your help!
We are in Sheffield.
We have in the past (about 10 years ago!) had a nanny when our eldest 2 were nursery age, and it did work well, but wasnt sure what current prices were like.
This is our current situation:
I have just gone back towork part time after 5 years as a SAHM. We have 6 kids aged 2.5, 4, 6, 8 , 11 and 12.
2 yr old has gone to a private nursery.
I am working 60%, but have spread my hours over 4 days rather than 3 so I can do school drop off and pick up on those days. So currently I work Mon,Tue and Thurs 9.15 till 2.30 and Weds 9-5.On a weds the older kids (well 4 of them, oldest makes his own way home from secondary school)go to after school club which costs us £22/week.
DS2 nursery currently costs £542/month
There are a number of reasons current situation isnt ideal.
DS2 doesn't like nursery much and we are not too impressed, but this may improve.
We REALLY struggle when any of the kids are ill as we have NO family or friends at all, so every time one of them is poorly either DH or myself needs to take a day off work, which is not sustainable really.
I would personally much prefer to work 3 full days and have 2 full days off(would make both work and home easier I think), but cost of extra out of school sessions for older kids would make this not worth while.
I would find it really helpful to have someone who could do a little bit of general tidying and washing and cooking (yes I know a nanny wont do lots of housework, but just little things would help!)
The extra flexibility of a nanny would be a help for the many times when my boss wants me to come in early/work late etc...
we did look into childminders, but didnt find a suitable one, and costwise would be about the same, and doesnt solve the problem of when kids are ill....
I am just feeling soooo overwhelmed right now. I had sort of hoped a nanny would ease the pressure a little bit...
BUT I would need someone experienced as obviously for a couple of hours a day she would have 6 children to look after...which isn't easy! (although theolder ones are not too demanding!) and also for that reason it wouldn't work having someone who wanted to bring their own children (although I've nothing against that in principle)
I have to work, as we can't survive on 1 salary any more...but I do worry I've bitten off more than I can chew![hhmm]