So, follwong on from my thread, I have made the following plan
DH is staying out for lunch, he says he comes home for a break from his stressful job, but all he hears is screaming child and his brother who talks incessantly
I shall not eat or drink anything all day, I shall sit on living room floor with this child, and stop him from climbing on sofa,touching dvd player get him to play with toys. This will mean ignoring totally his older brother.
of course there will be some scremaing and sickness as I will ahve to put him down to
A) change his nappy
B) put his brother on potty
C) make their lunch
D) make their tea
E) possibly have to stop rocking buggy to cross road, or scratch my nose 
let's see how we get on