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Poll - How many first time mothers had c/s or instrumental deliveries

157 replies

Rochwen · 06/06/2005 10:31

Just asking around my circle of friends and acquaintances it seems that a lot of first time mothers ended up with either a c/s or and instrumental delivery.

So, just out of interest I'd like to know whether your first baby arrived with c/s, instruments or without such intervention. Also, how many of you first timers had an epidural.

I know this is not going to be a very representative poll but perhaps we can establish a general trend.

Thanks, Rochwen

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beachyhead · 06/06/2005 13:15

emergency c section at 31 weeks - baby and me fine....

kama · 06/06/2005 13:16

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Cooperoo · 06/06/2005 13:32

Waterbirth using gas and air. Very interesting this. The c/section statistics at the hospital I am due to deliver at in Cyprus is over 50% . I am so glad it is my second baby due there.

cacaboo · 06/06/2005 13:34

Normal delivery, no pain relief in labour (arrived at hospital too late for that). Episiostomy at the end and DS popped out with his hands on his face.

pooka · 06/06/2005 13:40

spontaneous labour, pethidine, epidural, non-instrumental delivery.

madmarchhare · 06/06/2005 13:41

tens, pethadine, entinox, epidural, ventouse, forceps, emergency c section (no screen DH saw everything ha ha)

Hayls · 06/06/2005 13:47

TENS, paracetamol (wtf?), pethidine, birthing pool, gas and air, epidural, ventouse, episiotomy.

Of all my 1st time mum friends, most had some form of intervention and several had caesarians.

AnnieSG · 06/06/2005 13:52

Hi there
I had an epidural first time round, then an emergency c-section. Think now that I should have held out - the baby wasn't distressed and I wasn't too tired to continue. Just wasn't progressing 'fast enough'. Second time round had normal birth - very much better experience. Can never believe anyone thinks a c-section is the easy option!

dinosaur · 06/06/2005 13:54

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woohoo42 · 06/06/2005 13:56

Quick poll of friends and family:

1 induction - natural delivery no interventions apart from unwanted constant monitoring. (too fast) (me)
1 natural delivery resulting in 3rd degree tear (18yr old cousin)
1 failed ventouse and forcep delivery
3 emergency cs, 1 after failed ventouse and failed forceps.

Jillyk · 06/06/2005 14:28

Induced and fully dilated in 4 hours. Had diamorphine for pain relief. Moved onto gas and air when I started pushing but ds was on his side and didn't want to budge so it was theatre, spinal block, forceps and episiotomy. I think I had the spinal instead of epidural in case they had to do a section.

Lonelymum · 06/06/2005 14:34

No epidural (hospital didn't do elctive epidurals! ) but my first was born via a forceps delivery.

The other three were totally natural IYSWIM.

fuzzywuzzy · 06/06/2005 14:44

No epidural.
Ventouse didn't work so forceps assisted delivery....and to go with it the mother of all episiotomies

teeavee · 06/06/2005 14:47

my ds was born through emergency c-section - cord around neck, suffocating him, heartbeat stopped. I had had a few contracitons, nothing regular or very painful, was 4cm dilated, then was whisked to theatre when they heard his heartbeat stop during monitoring.
All came out fine - no regrets (no time!!) just EXTREMELY grateful for my healthy baby!

HappyMumof2 · 06/06/2005 14:49

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dawnie1 · 06/06/2005 14:53

Emergency c-section after 14 hours in labour, very distressed baby and I had only dilated 1cm.
I had gas and air, then injection to speed up contractions, then another injection to speed up dilation, then pethadine, then finally..... epidural and c-section.

To any soon to be new mothers out there it sounds horrendous but none of it was that painful TBH and I don't think I have a particularly high pain threshold. I missed out on the painful bit

poppy66 · 06/06/2005 14:55

water birth with gas and air but pulled out for last hour as baby stuck, eventually born with no instruments but 2nd degree tear, ouch!

lilaclotus · 06/06/2005 15:06

after 30 hours got epidural with failed ventouse and then forceps. i collapsed when they took the epidural out and i remember opening my eyes seeing about ten doctors and nurses around me and dh being in tears while holding newborn dd :/

suedonim · 06/06/2005 15:12

Pethidine, then epidural with a posterior baby. I don't remember but apparently 'they' were preparing for an instrument delivery but I managed without intervention, in the end.

LeahE · 06/06/2005 15:16

I had an emergency c/s 40 hours after my waters broke. DS was a big baby and had never engaged and although we tried for spontaneous delivery and got to fully dilated he just didn't seem to fit out. They were going to try a vntouse but after re-assessing decided that given his size and position it would be safer for him and me just to go straight for the c/s. I had an epidural once it was looking like a c/s was a likelihood.

Out of my NCT class of 6 first-timers we had one no instruments, one ventouse, two c-sections for breech babies (one planned, one emergency when they realised part way through labour that the baby was breech), two emergency c-sections for faiure to progress (mine and another woman who hadn't dilated fully after two days of active labour and the baby was in distress).

Listmaker · 06/06/2005 15:22

I had an elective c/s because of breach baby (diagnosed at 41 weeks!!.

My NCT class had

1 elective c/s for medical reasons (bad back/knees)
1 elective c/s for transverse lying baby
1 elective c/s for breach (me)
1 emergancy c/s after baby refused to come out
2 naturals with just gas and air
2 naturals with ventouse

biglips · 06/06/2005 15:26

had emergency c-section as was in labour for 17 hours and realised that baba was back to back, facing the wrong way and too high up.

biglips · 06/06/2005 15:27

had a big baba too

biglips · 06/06/2005 15:28

plus i was fully dilated but baba did not want to come out ( iwas 12 days late)

donnie · 06/06/2005 15:42

epidural followed by venthouse delivery for both dds. I hardly know anyone who had a straightforward vaginal birth with no intervention!

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