Had first baby in 2022. Contractions started off fairly irregularly, for example I’d have one, then none for 7 minutes, then three or four one after the other, then none for 5 minutes. Very hard to time.
Went into labour at 11pm at night. Stayed at home and only went into hospital at 5am because of some bleeding, pain was intensifying. Was 3cm on arrival. Then contractions ramped up and they were completely horrific. I had excruciating pain all across my lower back and sides. Every contraction felt like a giant metal vice was squeezing my lower back and pelvis together until they nearly shattered. It was also relentless, while the pain lessened in between contractions, it never fully went away and contractions were almost continuous towards the end. I was howling and screaming in pain, couldn’t move, thought I was dying.
its only now, 16 months on that I am wondering if I had back labour. No one mentioned this at the time. I think baby was born facing normally. Pushing took forever and I ended up needing assistance to birth the head. Please let me know if this sounds like back labour, or if I’m just pathetic!