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Overthinking - did I wet myself or could my waters have broke!

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TTCm · 17/12/2022 07:30

Last night, I went to bed and had a wee before going to sleep. Around 2:30am this morning, I remember my dream and I dreamt I went to the loo. I then woke to me peeing myself which has never happened! I went to the toilet and had a normal wee, changed and tried to go back to bed. Instantly, I started overthinking it as I’ve never wet myself in my sleep!

this morning, I can’t help but feel like this is not normal and could my waters have broke. I’m only 28+4 but do feel a slight pressure down below (not any more than normal if I wasn’t overthinking it)

there is no distinct smell to the liquid and I have had no more since I woke up, which makes me think it could just be diluted wee.

would it be worth a call to the triage to be safe? I just feel a bit embarrassed if I did pee myself!

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Sussex34 · 17/12/2022 07:32

100% call triage. It probably is just urine but anything like this is worth getting checked out as soon as possible. Hope it goes ok!

ABlindAssassin · 17/12/2022 07:33

My waters breaking felt like a huge release in pressure. It didn't feel like a wee that I could stop/start. They also continued leaking out after the initial gush!

No one on here can really know though so best go and get checked to be on the safe side!

ThisIsTrifficult · 17/12/2022 07:33

Definitely call your unit. They'll test the liquid to see what it is. I was 40+ weeks and thought I'd woken up sweaty, but called just in case.
They watched me a while and thought it wasn't fluid.
I then felt a small tiny 'gush' and said now! Check now! And it was my water partially breaking.
Labour didn't start naturally for me so was induced the next morning.

purplejungle · 17/12/2022 07:34

Yep you need to be checked to be on the safe side

Apparentlystillchilled · 17/12/2022 07:35

Best to call. With my eldest I had a similar experience and it was my waters and not wee.

Oatsamazing · 17/12/2022 07:37

My waters broke the same way, a small leakage woke me up in the night. But when I got up they kept leaking for an hour at least, just small amounts at a time. I think it's best to get someone to check to make sure. Hope it all goes well x

SafariRushHour · 17/12/2022 07:40

speak to a midwife asap

I was 38 weeks and had the same. Was my hind waters and they needed to induce me after x time due to infection risk.

smalia · 17/12/2022 07:52

If your waters had gone they would continue to leak, however I don't think there is any harm in getting checked over for your own piece of mind.

smalia · 17/12/2022 07:53

*peace

Fcuktherain · 17/12/2022 08:16

My waters broke at 28 weeks, they continued to trickle on and off for a week, I also thought I had wet myself as did the hospital.

I told them I was in labour, they didn't believe me, did an examination and was 10cm.

Scary at the time but she is 11 now, hormonal which is way more scary 😅

TTCm · 17/12/2022 08:31

Thank you all.

I’ve called and I am going to go to be assessed. I can smell a very very slight odour now the sheets are dry, so think it probably is wee, but would rather be on the safe side. Thank you 🙏

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WeWereInParis · 17/12/2022 08:47

smalia · 17/12/2022 07:52

If your waters had gone they would continue to leak, however I don't think there is any harm in getting checked over for your own piece of mind.

My waters leaked at 35 weeks (confirmed at the hospital with a swab) and I was induced at 37 weeks but they didn't continue to leak. The Dr at the hospital said that wasn't that unusual - I double checked it because I didn't want to be induced unnecessarily if it hadn't actually been my waters breaking.

smalia · 17/12/2022 09:43

@WeWereInParis that's interesting I wasn't told that by my midwife. Glad they tested you to make sure!

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