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Would you have a Doula?

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InMemoryOfSleep · 21/03/2018 16:34

I’m considering training as a Doula, and I’m interested to know people’s reasons for choosing to have one (or not!). Is cost a factor? Also, do people find it a bit ‘woo’?! One of the issues I had when searching for a Doula locally is that the few available offer things like shamanic healing, placenta encapsulation, etc, which is just not for me Confused. I wondered if there is a place for a sensible, supportive birth Doula, without the new age approach, or is that missing a vital part of what the role is about?

HebeMumsnet · 23/03/2018 12:01

I've had a doula twice (different doulas because first doula moved away).

I'm definitely not woo in any way. One of my doulas was a bit but was totally fine that I wasn't really interested. The other wasn't woo at all. I don't think people would assume you'd be into anything 'alternative' and there are a lot of people out there who, like me, just wanted a second 'experienced' birth partner and didn't really give a monkey's about the placenta, essential oils etc, but lot of people might so I reckon anything extra you offer would be another string to your bow.

Re: cost. I think it depends. A lot of doulas offer reduced rates. I was a bit shocked when I heard ours charged nearly a grand but she basically said 'how much can you afford' and she did us a deal. Second time round I actually used someone who was part way through their doula course and wanted to do a few births as practice, so that was very good value.

To be honest, I think you either need to be doing it for the love of it or live in a pretty wealthy area where people will be happy to shell out for the cost of it. When you think you're basically on call for four weeks at a time and can only have one client on call at that time, you do need to be charging a reasonable amount to make it worth it.

Good luck with it anyway, OP. Sounds very exciting!

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