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What is the best thing I can take to friend in hospital?

14 replies

Muse84 · 29/07/2017 22:49

That's it really! She had a c section and I'm visiting quickly tomorrow ....I'm thinking nice snacks and treats that she doesn't have to carry home?

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Rhubarbtart9 · 29/07/2017 22:52

Chocolate. Dried apricots for her bowls. Nice flavoured water. Grapes. Newspaper.

gluteustothemaximus · 29/07/2017 22:52

Definitely yummy food and drink. Food in hospital is not great.

Maybe a magazine? Congratulations to your friend Flowers

Also, some paracetamol so she doesn't have to keep asking, or waiting for if she needs it.

user1497557435 · 29/07/2017 22:55

Hugs & support x
No paracetamol - that's the medics job.

donajimena · 29/07/2017 22:57

How long will she be in for? If she's going home tomorrow I'd suggest a card and a present for baby (outfit or a voucher)
I always buy my new mum friends something for themselves such aa perfume, chocs or cash with the instructions to spend it on themselves not the baby. In reality I don't care what they spend it on. I absolutely loved receiving gifts for the baby but I also felt really special having something especially for me

AtSea1979 · 29/07/2017 22:59

Yes paracetamol, good idea. No apricots, yuk! Nice snacks, not chocolate she probably has loads of that. Something savoury that will keep at room temperature.

user1471495191 · 29/07/2017 22:59

To the person who said no to paracetamol - my hospital said it was good I'd brought my own! Back home my afterpajns were horrific and I asked my first visitors to bring paracetamol as we were limited in what we could buy ourselves.

donajimena · 29/07/2017 22:59

That sounds like I dictate not to spend money on the bundle of joy Blush
I don't mean it like that.

user1471495191 · 29/07/2017 23:02

I agree with easy to eat foods - cake bars, grapes, prepped strawberries, paracetamol and some nice lip balm / small hand cream...

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 29/07/2017 23:07

gin and tonic in a can Blush I snuck a tin into a friend's hospital bag and it was her best thing Grin

ginflumpsandzebraprint · 29/07/2017 23:19

Dry shampoo, face wipes, squash and decent decaf coffee

AtSea1979 · 30/07/2017 00:06

Yy decent coffee. Not sure about the alcohol unless you know for sure she isn't breastfeeding

Lizibet · 30/07/2017 00:09

Maybe comfy pjs if you know her size?

Muse84 · 30/07/2017 07:13

Thanks for all the advice! Smile

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ClaraLane · 30/07/2017 09:38

I've just had a section and one of my friends advised me to take in some nice smelling shower gel and shampoo as well as moisturiser to make me feel a bit more like myself and I must say that it really worked. The other thing I'd say I would have appreciated was a decent sized water bottle because the glasses you get with the jugs in there are tiny and I was constantly thirsty due to breastfeeding and the heat of the ward. My aunt bought my some lovely hand cream too because of all the hand washing I was doing with dirty nappies etc and I thought that was lovely. Plus snacks - anything she can eat one-handed like flapjack/cookies would be ideal. Congratulations to her!

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