ds was back to back and this was the case from around 30 ish weeks. I had classic signs like tummy button not pushed out and very fleshy down the bottom part of my tummy, back ache etc.
All I can say is if your baby is back to back then be open minded about pain relief in labour....I was willing to try anything as I was with dd BUT wanted (in order of preference) a water birth (Like with dd), g&a,pethadine and epi as a last option....obviously not all of the above but wanted it given in that order if needed....
When I went into labour I manged till 6cm's with a TENS, got into the pool and got out after 30 mins. The pain was UNBEARABLE. I got more relief out of the pool with g&a alone. I really couldn't cope so.........................I opted straight away for a epi. As you can see, totally the opposite of my birth plan.
I wish that I had been prepared by mw's about the possible pain I would experience as although people had said, it can be painful I was thinking: Oh I will be fine, I was with dd..!! (Did it all with g&a and water and never muttered a word) BUT I can honestly say it was hell.Im sure they could hear me miles away... BTW I ended up with diamorphine as well and nothing seemed to help.I can honestly say I felt little relief from the pain. Maybe the methods of pain relief failed me..who knows.NOTHING, not even the epi worked.
In fact dh & I wanted 5 children but this experience has put us both off, unless it can be documented that I am allowed a ecs next time.
I realy don't want to scare you but want to be truthful as if you are like me that this is what you will want to hear.
Just be prepared thats all.
BTW I gave birth 3 weeks ago so its all still very rememerable..!!