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Don't tell me you want a homebirth..................

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HRHQueenOfQuotes · 02/11/2006 17:31

were the words of my MW when I just saw her for my booking in appointment - I asked her why not and she reeled off what I expected really - previous CS, ventouse delivery last time, my height (I'm short), etc etc etc. I told her actually I was. She then said she couldn't stop me asking for a homebirth, but that seen as though she'd advised against it the onus was on me..........my reponse?? "That's fine - I was expecting you to say that" LOL.

She's told me to come home and think about it.......which I will do, but the more I think about the more strongly I feel I want to go for a homebirth this time round.

Having said all that - she is a lovely MW (had her for DS2) and I'm pretty sure if I stick to my guns and book a homebirth I'll still get the support I need.

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HRHQueenOfQuotes · 07/11/2006 13:02

"It did hurt A LOT though! But you know about that bit I'm sure."

Ginger - I know that - all painrelief (except for one shot of pethidine early on) failed with DS2 - so I effectively when through labour with no painrelief......but the physcological hell of thinking I was getting it LOL.

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