I had a forceps delivery with episiotomy but was not informed of any tear.
I experienced severe SPD and some faecal incontinence afterwards, luckily the incontinence was short lived but it was a close call for about 18 months afterwards.
I had Physio for the SPD and she gave my exercises to strengthen the anal sphincter as well.
I'm pregnant again and was asked by the consultant if I had torn but I had not been told this, nor had I seen anything on my notes, and certainly the only stitches I was aware of were the episiotomy stitches.
So I wondered if anyone else has experience or knowledge of faecal incontinence without a tear - or is that impossible?