Posted this in chat too.
I am pregnant with 3rd and I am shitting bricks about going through labour again. We always said number 2 was our last but then decided to have another at Christmas.
It was a huge decision for me as I have to get my kind round giving birth again. I am absolutely petrified of going through it.
I have thought about an ELCS and it's looking like an option but as I am due 1st Dec I don't want to be poorly and sore over christmas.
I want to know what the pros and cons of an ELCS are from you ladies as you say it how it is.
Please.
I had to speak to a midwife today as getting abit of bloody discharge and I mentioned to her my fears and I just cried when I got off the phone as that's what the thought of natural labour does to me :(
Now I know its not an Aibu but I could turn it into one
AIBU to ask for an ELCS as i am a wuss and scared of labour.