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Right, someone convince me it's not long now...please!

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MidnightinMoscow · 05/03/2012 07:12

I am 38+3 with DC2. Hoping for a VBAC after an EMCS for DC1 with who I got to 9cm's with.

I have had period cramps for over a week, two lots of plug coming away and last night lots of tight feelings high in my bump. The period like cramps are really painful and often are alongside sharp pains down below.

I have a week to go into labour, otherwise I am booked for a CS. I am so fed up of symptom spotting and being in this 'is it- is it not?' place. I went into labour at 38+4 with DC1.

So someone come along and tell me lie to me that todays the day. Grin

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feekerry · 26/03/2012 18:59

aww that sounds lovely fuckity sounds very serene and relaxing actually. maybe i might do something similar.....

dont feel very positive about my sweep earlier. midwife assured me i would have some blood/show as she really went for it and so far i've had a teeny tiny nano spot of brown stuff. thats it. i mean really tiny amount. looks like it might have been up there for months lol!!!!

oh well, i'm actually looking forward to my lounging about in sun day tomorrow so maybe its not meant to be today with the sweep!

seemedlikeagudideaatthetime · 26/03/2012 19:53

well I felt v achey in the cervixy area again today...then it went when I had a lie down so assumed I was just tired from being out and about. Now it's back though! bowels also, ahem, a bit looser than they have been, and although I've not eaten much by my standards today I don't feel like dinner, even a bit nauseous. Just want to eat ice lollies...

frustrating, exciting and terrifying all rolled into one!

DreamingOfPeace · 26/03/2012 20:59

I ache, and ache and ache. Mostly my ribs. Honestly, they can't expand any more.... please don't try babies!!!

No word from lemele yet? Hopefully she's having lovely double newborn snuggles after her double sneeze VBAC.

feek, ouch is all I can think of if envisaging a sweep done with vigour by an old skool mw.... OUCH! Brave woman you... and that you can wait til then for your induction.

fuckity, I wouldn't sweat it about the sweep being today or wednesday. After all, they work for some and not for others and I don't think I could ever volunteer for one Glad you're feeling cheerful today, and hurrh for well behaved children!!

Well, I'm mightily miffed because I've stuffed DD's routine up all by myself and genuinely can't manage to blame anyone/thing else today (except maybe clock changes?). We've been having nightmare sleep issues for months with her, and were finally getting things sorted with very strict getting up and nap times... Til I decided last night that Ranitidine wasn't curing my reflux therefore not working so I wouldn't take it, being an unlicensed prescription medication and all, and OMG what a mistake. Dire agony all night with heartburn/reflux (yet couldn't be bothered to go and get it as I was too tired, WTF?!) and dozed off after dh went to work, DD slept in til 8am, so nap out a bit, and now I have a shouter upstairs... 9pm, no sign of my 18 month old going to sleep Sad. and from past experience, this does not bode well for getting back on track tomorrow... Sh*T!!!! 9 days til babies, MUST re-establish proper routine....

DaydreamDolly · 26/03/2012 21:00

Oh My god DH is eating an orange. How Fucking Annoying. Angry

DreamingOfPeace · 26/03/2012 21:01

oh, and sorry, forgot to say, you poor thing midnight, how traumatic for you and your DH. It was a lovely and very touching post you wrote. I really hope the bf improves a bit for you, but there is no shame in top ups. SO long as your DD is fed somehow, everything is fine. Hope your nipples are slathered in lansinoh Thanks

FlipFantasia · 26/03/2012 21:41

Gag! Just lost a message - bloody iPad!

Thanks for all your congrats messages Grin. We're home since lunch time and all good (bar the tender nipples - praise be for lansinoh!).

Midnight glad that you're home and feeling good. I had a cat 1 section with ds and know how petrifying they are. I had to have my 6 week check at the hospital and was really glad of the chance to go over my notes and understand what happened and why. So talking talking talking is good.

feekery I had my sweep at about 3.30pm and no show until 5.30am the next day. But it worked as was in labour by that night! Fingers crossed for you!

lem hope all is going well with you!

bertie congrats! Sounds like your body was working away well but unknown ti you to finish the job so quickly at the end!

(waves to donttry Smile)

For everyone else wondering about sweeps, I was totally reluctant too. Had 3 was ds, including some bloody show, and was still induced. My obs was recommending them from 37 weeks this time but I couldn't be bothered to try that early. But the one at 40 weeks exactly worked this time. Still in shock that dd arrived at 40+2-was fully expecting an Easter baby!

Anyway, had a good labour - the hypnobirthing was really useful this time and i handled the surges well. Got to hospital at 6.30am, but had to wait on triage ward til about 8am before being admitted to the birth centre (due to shift changes). Was a bit disheartened after being examined around 8am and being told I was only 1-2cms (had been contracting 4 in 10 mins for several hours by this stage).

Went to the loo at 9am and was horrified to find meconium traces on the pad. Ds passed mec and I was convinced it meant another crash section. Doula was again amazing at calming me down and getting me back in zone. Anyway, rushed up to labour ward for cfm. Turned out I was 9cms though the midwife said 8cms to give me a bit more time. I can see now that i must have been in transition as was so panicky. Gas and air helped a huge amount at this point, as my focus returned to my breathing. By the time i was pushing i didn't need it anymore. Second stage was 9 mins and her heart rate was dropping so the doc had literally come through with the ventouse when I got her out myself. Had to have an episiotomy though and am now stitched to the hilt! So many stitches the head of midwifery who stitched me up lost count! I remember saying "oh I don't mind, I love stitching and crafts" BlushGrin

So despite having only an hour on the birth centre (I had struggled to get signed off to vbac there), it was a productive hour in terms of dilating. The midwives were all amazing, the doula was invaluable and dh was a tremendous support. And ds seems quite taken with the baby (well as much as a 2 yr old can be!). Am knackered now though!

So any tips on healing with stitches much appreciated. Currently don't seem to have bladder control as in can't stop weeing once I start. Am assuming this is normal and will pass!

In meantime, am expecting lots of babies here - c'mon babies, lovely sunny weather to be born!

DreamingOfPeace · 26/03/2012 22:34

Hooray for a good labour flip! Third degree tear here last time- I was advised a bath twice a day with tea tree oil to soften the stitches and stop them tightening and pulling and help healing with the tea tree. Good excuse for a little bit of time for yourself too! I usually only managde once a day anyway, and that was first baby!!

feekerry · 27/03/2012 07:09

Morning everyone. Just checking in for the day. Have woken up a little wet this morning. . . Have stood up and gone for a wee which was normal but def woke up a bit wet. Didn't smell of anything and def wasn't sweat like last time lol. I've put a fresh pad on and see what happens. If anything. Which it prob wont lol. Supposed to be lovely toely. . Hope everyone has got something nice planned.

artifarti · 27/03/2012 07:14

Morning all. Just waddling checking in. 40+10. Off to the the Day Assessment Unit this morning for ELCS pre-op but I spoke to them yesterday and they might let me delay it until Friday (40+13) if they are happy with monitoring today. Then it's definitely eviction day!

feekerry - fingers crossed for some waters action!

Congrats again flip!

Anyone sneezed a baby in the night?

Joygirl78 · 27/03/2012 07:26

Not quite sneezed a baby - yet, but waters started to go at 5am this morning. A nice cupful on the kitchen floor, and now leaking. Very crampy, but no contractions yet. Last time it took me 36 hours from this point to dellivery, hoping it's quicker this time. Wish me luck!!!!!!!

DaydreamDolly · 27/03/2012 07:33

Good luck today Arti. I'm down for induction on Friday at 40+14 so we may end up having babies on the same day!
Had uncomfortable tightenings all evening and most of the night, just enough to ensure I didn't get much sleep but not enough to be actually going anywhere! Let's hope it ramps up a bit today and gets going.
Feek fingers crossed its your waters and you'll soon be contracting!!

DaydreamDolly · 27/03/2012 07:33

Cross post! Good luck Joy!!

artifarti · 27/03/2012 07:45

Oooh, good luck Joy!

feekerry · 27/03/2012 07:51

Ooh lots of possible sneezing action today then maybe? Best of luck joy sounds like the end is in sight. . . arti good luck for today, hoping you happen to sneeze on the way to your appointment thus avoiding the need for any intervention. Dolly everything crossed for you its starting. . Apart from my legs of course! Got up and made some breakfast and absolutely no further wetness here so fingers crossed it returns at some point later.

DreamingOfPeace · 27/03/2012 07:58

Ooooh, joy, I'll give you til tea time (impatient here!) . Good luck!

Keep us informed on waters situation feek :-)

fuckityfuckfuckfuck · 27/03/2012 09:04

Ooo someone's going to POP today. I can feel it in my (intact) waters. I read a thread here the other day asking what a shoe looked like and my favourite reply was 'like a sneeze in my pants' and yep, have woken up to said sneeze. Lovely. Had some very strong and regular baton hicks last night but not getting hopes up. Everything that needs to be done this week as Dar as the dc go has been done, no more drs appointments, dressing up days or clubs so am all set. Mil is taking me to the supermarket in half an hour, then the day of utter slovenlyness shall begin.

DaydreamDolly · 27/03/2012 09:43

Please be me please be me please be me Grin
40+11 today. Officially my longest pregnancy now.

Flisspaps · 27/03/2012 10:02

Flip I had a 3a tear with DD, and was told to use just water to clean the stitches (no tea tree oil, no savlon, no salt water) and to keep the wound dry - pat dry, use a hair dryer if necessary. Other than that, take it easy and leave well alone!

I can't even see my scar now and it was pretty impressive!

feekerry · 27/03/2012 10:11

okay, well i'm def leaking something a little bit, although dont think its my waters. seems to be a small amount of browny jelly like stuff. exactly like fuckity says- sneeze in my pants!!! ha ha lol. tho just a small sneeze!!! but given some of you have had this for weeks it probably means i'm nowhere near labour lol.
i'm going to get some ice cream and sun tan lotion and chill in the garden today. its boiling here today and i'm already sunburnt from this week so i dont any further sun burn and an impending labour so think sun tan lotion is a must!!!

Flisspaps · 27/03/2012 10:19

Exciting!

I've never been so glued to updates of the contents of knickers! Blush

38+6 here today. 3 weeks for me to go yet. Had 2 short, close together but definitely painful BH on waking, got excited but nothing since. Today or tomorrow are not convenient days anyway as DH has an interview tomorrow Smile

Will be checking for more pants-contents updates later Grin

seemedlikeagudideaatthetime · 27/03/2012 10:28

Morning all, good to see all the snotty, leaky action! Looking good for joygirl today!

I had the sneeze in my pants saturday before last...nothing since. :( I'm milking good though, although that's not really new - it is getting thicker and darker coloured though. Feeling a bit periody painy achey on and off but that's as far as we've got.

Going to do washing for something to DO other than symptom-spot.

FlipFantasia · 27/03/2012 12:13

Exciting on here today!

Joy hope your contractions start soon!

Feek I had brown jelly for about 12 hours before waters started going (and about 29 hours before dd born). Looking good for some sneeze birth action soon!

Dolly tightenings sound like things are moving for you too Smile

fuckity the fact that your dc is all sorted is great - your mind leads where your body follows, you're ready to meet this baby and she/he is on their way soon!

arti hope the monitoring goes well

dreaming and fliss thanks for tips. Have been pouring warm water over after weeing and letting air at it (a midwife gave me some inco pads to take home exactly for the reason). Also doing pelvic floor exercises. Not painful at all (even after - tmi - pooing!).

Seriously exciting that so many babies are in their way!

Joygirl78 · 27/03/2012 13:19

Just got back from day assessment unit. Confirmed my waters had gone (no, really???!!!!) I am contracting now about every 5 to 6 mins, but not yet unbearable, dilation only about 1cm so far. So, back home and going to do some serious pacing about to get this labour properly moving. Last time was 36 hours from waters breaking to birth, with epi and induction drugs required. This time I'm damned determined for it to move a lot faster and avoid the induction drip!!!!

Kenobi · 27/03/2012 13:35

Hi ladies, thought I'd update! DD2 born at 10.23 on Friday - bertie beat me by 2 hours! The elcs was very positive, calm and friendly with music playing, though I had a massive headache very quickly - don't think epidural really agrees with me. They dropped the screen so i could see her come out which isn't everyone's cup of tea but very special for me. Have pics if anyone is interested.

She was 8.11 so spot on the growth scan prediction, and a full 1lb 4 oz lighter than her sister.

She is a lovely, soft, velvety bundle of snuggle and flop.

It was been very fraught however as they have found DD has a hole in her heart. We're waiting to see a cardio to find out how big though they have discharged us for the time being Sad

Kenobi · 27/03/2012 13:36

oh and congrats fliss and GOOD LUCK joygirl