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Poll: Did you have the same gender baby on second birth to first?

123 replies

kateyfer · 10/11/2011 13:29

Hi MNer's,

I'm currently expecting DC2 and wanted to conduct a quick poll on likelihood of having same sex child for DC2 as DC1. Of all my friends/child's friends, everyone I know seems to have had the same sex child for first and second births!

anyone know if there are any stats on this?

what has been your experience? what did you have first and second time?

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PreHeatedOven · 11/11/2011 09:03

DS
DS
Tempted by a third!

StellaAndFries · 11/11/2011 09:04

4 dd's here and no ds's.

schobe · 11/11/2011 09:16

Ooh spooky, yama I am exactly the same as you.

From a boy, girl, boy, girl family and had girl then boy.

My mum's mum had girl, boy, girl, boy, girl.

msbuggywinkle · 11/11/2011 09:49

3DDs here (well, one due in a few weeks)

I'm one of two girls, DP 1 boy and 2 girls.

My Mum is one of 4 girls, my Dad one of 12 who are half boys half girls!

SexyDomesticatedDab · 11/11/2011 09:53

ds x 4

Babieseverywhere · 11/11/2011 09:55

Girl, Boy, Girl.

MIL told me that DC1 was going to have a boy, as their family always have boys first. But not in our case ;)

RockStockAndTwoOpenBottles · 11/11/2011 10:01

DD
DD
DS
DD

I'm the oldest of five which went girl, boy, boy, boy and finally, thank God Girl. I apparently said I would be leaving home if I had another brother.

ImBrian · 11/11/2011 10:11

DD x3 and due with DD no 4 in a week :)

mamasmissionimpossible · 11/11/2011 10:19

ds
dd
ds

JiltedJohnsJulie · 11/11/2011 10:20

DS then DD.

AWimbaWay · 11/11/2011 10:23

Girl
Boy
Girl

MoaningMinnieWhingesAgain · 11/11/2011 10:25

Girl then a boy.

Clarabumps · 11/11/2011 10:26

ds then ds would love a dd but...nah!

sleepywombat · 11/11/2011 12:09

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BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 11/11/2011 12:53

DS first, will let you know #2 on wednesday when I have my scan Grin

Mum
dd, dd, dd

Nan
dd, dd

Other nan
ds, (unknown), dd, ds

Aunty
ds, dd

Other aunty
ds, ds, dd

Random friends
ds, dd
ds, ds
dd, dd
dd, dd, dd, ds, ds

Grin
BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 11/11/2011 12:54

Oops, missed MIL
ds, ds

GibberingGinger · 11/11/2011 22:28

I was about to say that I think its pretty random with your second child but in my experience of families of 4 or more, if the sex hasn't changed by the 3rd child then it won't change until the 5th. But Beyond's random friend has blown that theory out of the water. Out of the people I know who have 4 or more and it's been 3 girls (or 3 boys) and they have gone for a 4th it's been another girl (or boys if they already have boys) and then they got a change on the 5th child.

I have a girl and then twin boys

puffylovett · 11/11/2011 22:32

Both Sis and I have 2 ds's. Wishing fir a dd but the big man he say no :(((

Offspring · 12/11/2011 02:41

DD
DS

I'm one of 4 girls, DH is one of 3 boys.

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 12/11/2011 09:21

Ahh, Gibbering but it is probably very relevant that they have different fathers...
dad 1: dd
dad 2: dd, dd, ds
dad 3: ds

Grin
falasportugues · 13/11/2011 22:29

i heard that close in age siblings are more likely to be the same gender..... does your experience bear this theory out?

me...............dd7 dd5
my mate.......ds6 ds4,
other friend...ds13 ds11 ds9 dd6
other friend....dd 21, ds17,ds13, dd10
other friend... dd13 ds10
other friend.....ds7 ds5
cousin............dd5 dd3
other cousin...dd5 ds3
mil ds, ds, ds, ds, ds, divorced,dd, widowed, dd, dd, ds ds dd

thegingerone · 15/11/2011 21:19

me: ds8, ds5, pg with a possible dd (but conceived "her" at an impossable time in my cycle so if not mentioned before in this thread timing of conception can affect gender, apparently)

I'll hopefully be able to confirm by weekend (if these blasted cramps and bits of mucus plug mean anything!)

Gosh I feel like an actually living experiment!!Wink

bibbitybobbitybloodyaxe · 15/11/2011 21:25

Dd then ds, 2 yrs 8 months apart (cute pix on profile).

Every summer we go camping for a weekend with a group of old friends from Uni and it suddenly struck me this year that there are five couples within this group who have children, and we all have 1 girl, 1 boy.

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 16/11/2011 19:17

Had my 20w scan today, DC2 is in fact DS2, 18 months between them... Grin

Chynah · 16/11/2011 19:47

DS then DD - 15 months apart.

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