Please read 'welcome to Holland' on blog of the day on mn.

[GameSetAndMatch]

just read out of curiosity. its very good.

Welcome to holland is a bit like marmite, some love it others hate it. Personally I'm in the loathe it camp but if helps others then that's a good thing.

I do like it, its well written, although i must say id never be without my child and i love them, the only thing i hate is them having disabilities is the pain they have and have to live with all life through but id rather have my child the way they are than not at all.

and I like Holland!!!

I hate it. No offence - I know some find comfort in it.

I find it trite that giving birth to a child with a disability/illness would be comparable to planning a holiday in one country only to end up in another country.

I hate it! I planned to go to one country but ended up in another UGH. I planned to have a baby and I had a baby