Husband has secondary bowel cancer but is having treatment and definitely focussed on living. He was gobsmacked to receive an unsolicited message from a distant ‘friend’ who has retrained as a Druid apparently. He sent us a link to a documentary his mortician friend made about rituals around dead bodies around the world because DHB ‘ will have to face the final curtain before the rest of us ’( yes he actually said that). Insensitive what ? Was angry at first but now see the funny side. ( I guess)