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Lung cancer that’s spread - how long it that piece of string??

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MaitlandGirl · 26/06/2024 03:05

I know that no-one here can give a definitive answer but MIL isn’t asking the questions and the medics won’t tell us. She’s gatekeeping all info and is very selective on what she tells us.

FIL was diagnosed with stage 1 NSCLC in December. By the time they started treatment in March it had spread to his adrenal gland. He had 3 rounds of immunotherapy and it’s now spread to his liver, jaw, brain and somewhere else she can’t remember. I suspect bowel based on some of his symptoms.

He’s really unwell and is fading away in front of us. He’s been in hospital for 3 weeks now due to extreme weight loss (he’s lost over 1/2 his body weight and is less than 45kg) high calcium levels and now he’s got low potassium. They’re discharging him so he can start chemo.

i know that no-one really knows but if anyone has been in this situation how long did your loved one last once they got to this stage?

TIA

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Ratherbeaspoonthanafork · 11/08/2024 15:52

Sorry for your loss.

Bulkypeepants · 11/08/2024 16:28

Sorry to hear this. I lost my DF last year to cancer in very similar circumstances. The last month was very hard but I took comfort in knowing that the suffering was over, not just for him, but for my DM and me having to provide palliative care to him. It was actually quite relieving and it is only recently that I feel I have started to grieve, but it feels gentler in a way - (not sure I'm explaining myself amazingly well)

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