how do I stop myself getting involved?

[briarrose]

Hi everyone

Just need a good talking to here!
my DD is 11 and has mild aspergers, she has just got back from a week long residential trip and had a great time. Although in the last couple of days she fell out with a girl and this argument escalated. My DD stood up for herself, but I can't help thinking this girl will continue with her bitchiness. She really was a cow, and tried to turn DDs mates against her. I know the other girl's Mum and just want to run to her shouting "did you know your DD was such a bitch?" but i'm holding back.
some kind words please!!!

Talk to school - please don't get involved. Plus there are always two sides to every story.

Of course support your daughter, talk to her about coping strategies, do role play if you like.

It's hard innit?

It really is. I will approach the school if need be. The thing is DD doesn't appear to need my help (other than support etc) she handled it all really well actually, I was proud, and i'm sure it's not all that bad, but you know when you just feel like your blood is boiling and you want to sort it all out. You are right though, there are two sides.