Husband can be aggressive

[Creek2025]

My husband can really flip out at me especially when he is stressed.

We have been together for 16 years and no kids.

I do think he is a bit depressed but he takes his moods out on me shouting and snapping at me.

feel like I’m at the end of my teather I do say stop speaking to me like that he will be okay for a while then it’s starts again.

I honestly don’t know what to do.

I earn enough money to support myself but not sure I want to leave although fed up of his behaviour.

Why don't you want to leave? He sounds horrible.

You've luckily got no children witnessing this so the question is do you want to spend another 16 years being used as someone's punch bag?

He's not going to change, could get worse and you have the financial means to leave.

Perhaps counselling to help you process the situation would be helpful.