no feeding pattern atall for my 4 mnth old

[beansy]

help! my 4 mnth old has no feeding pattern. I seem to have made her into a snacker partlly to fit in with my toddler. she feeds frquently, not for long, rarely even 1 breast& is quite sickly & initially had refux which has gone now.i really don't know where to start as can't put her down to sleep as never sure if hungry or not.feel confused as my 1st baby was a predictable 3hr feeder.

Hi there, I also have a 17 week old snacker with no pattern and a DS 2.11.
It is confusing isn't it. I'm only just getting to grips with her different cires. I never know if she's hungry or not and keep offering her FF top-ups which she never takes. She also has bad reflux and vomits 20 times a day or so . Max length of daytime feed is about 3 minutes tops.

No help I'm afraid but just to say you're not alone. The only thing I keep saying to myself is ' go with the flow'