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My neighbour stares at me whilst I am BF

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TheProvincialLady · 11/02/2009 13:12

Actually, spies on me might be a better way of putting it. Our sitting room window is overlooked by a bedroom window in the house to our rear. It is let out to students I think. The latest occupant can often be seen with no top on (can't see what is going on at the bottom thank gawd), standing at his window looking into our sitting room. If I look up he pulls the curtains shut v quickly. He never did this until I had DS2 7 weeks ago. It is really obvious that he is trying to look.

Blinds or net type curtains are not an option for us as our sitting room is already too dark.

Shall I just ignore him or let DH jump over the back wall and threaten to smash his pervy head in (My DH is the least violent or aggressive person I know but he was very angry when I told him this was happening)? Ignore him? Or try and be even more discreet? This is not easy as DS2 has fussy periods where he is on and off the breast for ages and DS1 distracts me.

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CrushWithEyeliner · 11/02/2009 18:04

There is no doubt here that what he is doing is purposeful from what you say.

You are doing the right this getting your DH to talk to him. The sign thing will just be playing his own game and inappropriate. Guys who do this kind of thing need someone to spell things out in no uncertain terms.

Creep

TreeTrunkThighs · 11/02/2009 20:30

Could you give him a wave? He might think he is getting away without you seeing him, but a cheery wave might put him off!

alexpolismum · 11/02/2009 20:30

Knock on the door and tell him that if he wants milk to go to Tesco. Yours is for ds only.

Seriously, though, he sounds like a right nuisance. Perhaps you should try waving at him when he watches you and see if he is embarrassed enough to stop

alexpolismum · 11/02/2009 20:31

xpost Treetrunk! Great minds think alike!

charitygirl · 11/02/2009 21:53

Yeah, a wave, and then the finger, would be good.

Grr what a perv.

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