Before Christmas he was down to feeding morning and night and sometimes in the afternoon (also having cows milk late morning and in the afternoon).
Then I stopped feeding him through the night. He had been waking two or three times, then slept through a few times then went to not sleeping unless he was attached to a boob. The first night he cried initially when dh went to him but soon settled, after that he settled within seconds of dh going to him-dh didn't need to pick him up either, just put his dummy back in and patted his back. If I went in he would always cry until he had a feed though.
He has mostly been sleeping through until 5.30/6am at which point he comes into bed with me and bf's on and off until dd wakes up (usually 7.30/8). If he does wake in the night he settles easily for dh.
After a few nights of not feeding him he started wanting to feed a couple of times in the day again which seemed pretty normal to me and I was happy to do. For the past week or two he has been wanting to feed literally ALL DAY, I have mostly let him other than when it wasn't really possible. Now he is waking at night again and not settling for DH.
WHY?????