am really fed up. 2 children in quick succession- fell pregnant whilst feeding the first_ has meant i have been pregnant or brestfeeding for 3 years. dd2 was ill early on then had colic till 3 months and reflux till 6 months. stuck out the breast feeding little and often and holding her upright after feeding for 6 months whilst also having a toddler who did not sleep through. am now starting to hate brestfeeding which is 3 or 4 times at night and nothing in the day ( not interested or bites !) and when she bit me tonight and drew blood i felt it was just the time to stop. as she wont take a bottle or even let dh settle her at night ( not that he tries often) it will be cold turkey tonight. can anyone give me any good reason why i should try to continue ? she is not interested at all in breat feeding during the day unless we are in a pitch black room and she is sleepy, and wont eat until mid morning as she is so stuffed from her marathon feeds at night she is not hungry. obvioously we have things the wrong way round. i was going to stick to just dh settleing tonight and formula and not go in but after reading a few threads we will probably just end up replacing bottle for boob and still keep getting up. any advice or comments would be most welcome. I have not slept more than a 4 hour strech in 3 years so am a bit desperate. Thanks