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Infant feeding

Get advice and support with infant feeding from other users here.

oh wise wonderful women of mumsnet, lend me your teats

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eandz · 19/01/2009 00:54

Sorry for the title, My 4 month old son and I are having a problem and I'd really appreciate your help. Please.

Rewind to 8 weeks ago and my bm supply diminished because of a flare up of an auto immune disease (Stills Disease) that I've had since childhood. I tried really hard to get my bm back, I even flew home so my mother would prescribe prolactin to help. It didn't work and needless to say I've had to use formula, but I still try to get my son to latch on and suck as much as he can during the day and night. I would love to keep breast feeding. So far I'm lucky if I get a drop out while he's sucking or 3 ounces.

He has always vomited after every feed small amounts. I didn't worry, I read that it's never as much as it seems so dismissed it. Anyway, before I knew it, he had colic. Very bad colic. I switched formulas, I bought the bottles (Dr Browns and Born Free), we tried Colief, Infacol, gripe water. I just learned to live with it and kept him upright during and after feeds until his body relaxed and he'd burped. His burps have always been loud and they have always shaken him on their way out.

But about two weeks ago, his vomiting became projectile. After every feed, he spits up excorcist style. Whatever is behind me is be covered in puke and (thankfully) my shoulders are often left unscathed. His burps are sharp, loud and just feel grizzly coming from him. The gp has prescribed domparadone and renititdine. I've been trying the medications this week and his symptoms were at least stable last week without the medicine. But with the medicine his symptoms have increased in severity. I've called the gp and tried to explain, I've taken my son in to be seen but they really aren't helpful, they keep dismissing me and telling me to keep using the medication.

I've continued with the medication, but there has been no change. He won't sleep at night unless he's in the sling upright and I'm standing. He will not even let me sit down. He will not be held in any other position except upright, and if you hold him the wrong way, sit down or even try to lay down he screams. These days his body doesn't seem to relax for more than an hour at a time and then he's wailing again.

Help us please!

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Jacksmama · 20/01/2009 22:34

My only other input would be to go on the Children's Health topic and start a thread called "Help - does anyone's baby have pyloric stenosis or gastric reflux?" That ought to bring out some more help for you.
Good luck!!
xxxx

treedelivery · 20/01/2009 22:36

I'll burn with you Jacksmama as I thought that. Second your idea on a new thread title.

Jacksmama · 20/01/2009 22:40

Phew... thanks for the back-up from someone who knows way more than I do!

treedelivery · 20/01/2009 22:42

Ahhhhh but I never typed it

Jacksmama · 20/01/2009 22:45

I'm too far away, geographically speaking, to be set on fire easily

eandz · 20/01/2009 23:00

i just can't believe any of it. i'm really very tired.

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Jacksmama · 20/01/2009 23:01

(((((((((HUG)))))))))?
(Don't care if the MN anti-hugging police see me, you sound like you need it.)

eandz · 20/01/2009 23:01

ok, should i just post whats been happening there? with a more direct title?

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treedelivery · 20/01/2009 23:05

Oh big sympathy eandz it is just tooo crappy. Put the thread out like Jacksmama says and just say you're knackered and will check it when able, but all ideas appreciated.
Some GP's and paeds will post although wont be able to say they are proffs. I'm sure. Mumsnet is good at this kind of thing.

May I suggest a nice glass of red?

My mate used baby massage and bath after bath after bath [her and baby together as she's too zoned with tiredness to do the baby bath thing, they just get in together and float in the water]

treedelivery · 20/01/2009 23:06

Go for it - can't hurt and we'll bump for you so it stays in active convo.

eandz · 21/01/2009 10:36

ok thanks. sorry about last night. i fell asleep right infront of the computer.

but i do have two updates:

  1. i spoke to my aunt and uncle who work as gps here, and they came over to check Noah out so they could advise me on a higer dosage then the dose the gp suggested. they called my step mom (she's a doctor in the states and one of her partners will prescribe some other medicines to try) she's also sending a bunch of stuff she thinks will help that she used for her other children.
  1. i made an appointment for tomorrow morning with a private pediatrician, but i have a feeling if i call a few more times over the next hour or two they might see me today.
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eandz · 21/01/2009 11:33

i started the new thread.

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eandz · 21/01/2009 17:00

i've linked it to here in the opening post.

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Jacksmama · 21/01/2009 17:27

k, will bump for you

xxx love, big hugs

eandz · 21/01/2009 18:16

thank you thank you

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