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extended bfers: When, if ever, did you feel uncomfortable feeding in public?

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kittywise · 11/01/2009 08:23

Hello
Ds3 is 21 months and still very much a boob boy. He would feed all day if he could, infact he is happily talking to my boobs as I type!

I am happy to feed him as long as he wants to feed, although not as frequently as he wants

Because he is my youngest and I don't know whether I'll ever have another,( although I'd dearly like to.) I don't want to stop feeding.
I guess I still think of him as my little baby.
So for me it's perfectly fine to bf him, yet I notice, in public that I get some sideways glances now.

Obviously he is not a baby to anyone else watching. It's making me a little self conscious, only a little.

I wondered whether any other ex bfers don't feed in public, don't care what looks they get. Do you wait until you get home?

Thanks

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kittywise · 14/01/2009 07:09

Thanks for all your replies everyone. I am quite surprised by the number of people who are uncomfortable feeding in public.

It makes me all the more detirmined to carry on!

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ChairmumMiaow · 14/01/2009 07:25

DS is almost 12 mo and we almost never feed in public (this has only happened over the last month, and because I stopped offering due to biting and he is easily fobbed off with a snack while we're out )

Funnily enough, I was made to feel uncomfortable at baby groups from around 9mo. Where people would previously chat to me while I was feeding I started getting ignored. But by then almost everyone I know had either stopped feeding or was planning to stop soon and didn't seem to feed in public.

I still plan to feed in public where he really wants it, and although I would like to make EBF more 'public', for the sake of my nipples, I'm making sure DS is calm and really wants his feed!

kittywise · 14/01/2009 10:12

biting, ouch!

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