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Breastfeeding - when does it get less messy?!

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QueenOfWeeds · 05/06/2025 18:17

DD2 is 3 weeks old. DD1 was formula fed for various reasons, so this is all really new for me. When does it get less messy?

If I don’t use breast shells then I leak milk so much that I need to change pyjamas in the night, the floor is covered in sticky spray from where I’ve hand expressed to take the edge off my letdown and it’s sprayed out at a funny angle so I’m mopping every day. I have breast pads but find them really faffy when I’m out and trying to do up my bra one handed whilst keeping the baby vaguely upright. On top of all this it doesn’t help that DD2 is a bit sicky so I feel like I either smell of fresh milk or sicky milk. I’m washing muslins like there’s no tomorrow.

Does it all settle down, or will I just be more efficient at managing it? I desperately want to make breastfeeding work but I feel so out of my depth sometimes.

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middleagedandinarage · 06/06/2025 09:10

I wouldn't pump/express at all OP, it will only increase your supply. It will settle down soon, I did leak from the opposite side baby was feeding from until about 6 months, but a lot less than you're experiencing now after about 6 weeks.

QueenOfWeeds · 06/06/2025 09:34

@Paaseitjes yes, have the shells and I love them. We also have a robot vacuum/mop but stupidly upgraded to a new smart internet router which is too clever for its own good and can’t be split into 3G and 5G (or something like that) so currently it won’t talk to half our things. Can’t wait to get it back!

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