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Infant feeding

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Were you formula fed as a baby?

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Janni · 01/04/2008 21:55

Do you believe you would be healthier or more intelligent had you been breastfed?

Do you believe you were disadvantaged in any other way by being formula fed?

I was not breastfed.

I breastfed my own children for 20 months.

I realise though that I do not feel in any way disadvantaged for not having been breastfed myself.

I just wondered how others felt.

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wannaBe · 01/04/2008 21:57

erm the only way I feel is that this is going to kick off. .

hana · 01/04/2008 21:57

was breastfed for a few weeks, then onto carnation milk ( I kid you not, formula was waaaaay too expensive, and breastfeeding wasn't the done thing when mum was a new mum.....)

am incredibly healthy and intelligent (ahem)
don't feel disadvantaged At ALL

fingerwoman · 01/04/2008 21:58

i wa sbreastfed and am clearly highly intelligent and beautiful

this may or may not be the result of being breastfed.

RubyRioja · 01/04/2008 21:58

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MissPaulaYates · 01/04/2008 21:58

my 'mother' claimed she b/f me but in reality it was for a couple of weeks only

DrNortherner · 01/04/2008 21:59

I was bottle fed.

I had no serious childhood ilnesses.

Was a healthy bright child.

No exzema/asthma etc

Though did develop hayfever as an adult

dizzydixies · 01/04/2008 22:01

nope was adopted soon after birth so never b/f, certainly hasn't stunted my growth and managed to scrape a degree

brother wasn't b/f either, even though he is biological child of parents, my mother was too ill and he's 6ft8 and a raving genuis, can do allsorts of exceptionally intelligent things but couldn't find his way home out of a paper bag - wonder if b/f might have helped that

MissPaulaYates · 01/04/2008 22:02

i had apalling childhood eczema

Waswondering · 01/04/2008 22:02

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sweetkitty · 01/04/2008 22:02

Bottlefed from the off apparently my Mum was given tablets to get rid of her milk which she didn't get with my brother as they were linked to breast cancer.

I had endless chest infections when young including one where I ended up in hospital not breathing.

Could be FF but more likely to be the fact that my Mum and Dad smoked around me as did all my relatives and I used to be asleep in a room with 6 adults smoking

Mercy · 01/04/2008 22:02

Yes I was formula fed after a few (a couple maybe?) weeks.

I haven't even thught about it until you asked tbh!

SmoothandWilkie · 01/04/2008 22:05

FF from the off

Was very healthy as a child and academically intellignet (although my common sense got lost somewhere along the way...!!!)

beautifuldays · 01/04/2008 22:06

i was bottlefed and i do not feel dis-advantaged in any way, but i do feel a pang of sadness that my mum was told she couldn't breastfeed me because she had no milk. she still believes that to this day and in fact was convinced i wouldn't be able to breastfeed my own children because i wouldn't have any milk either

i did breastfeed them both for several years in fact. i don't feel dis-advantage or resentful, but i do feel sad that my mum effectively had the opportunity to breastfeed me taken away from her, and that she never got to experience such a wonderful thing.

BrownSuga · 01/04/2008 22:06

I was FF, my older brother, the golden child, was BF. He can still do no wrong. My mother jokingly says that's why we didn't bond. I bit my tongue.

BrownSuga · 01/04/2008 22:07

oh yes, and while my brother has allergies, I have none.

LynetteScavo · 01/04/2008 22:12

My siblings were BF for much longer than me, as far as I can tell.

I'm the only one who has suffered from excema, have not achieved so well academicaly, and was fatter as a toddler.

Janni · 01/04/2008 22:12

Hmm - the smoking thing sounds familiar!

This is not intended to be a 'kick off' topic. I'm way past the breastfeeding stage and have never been on one of these threads before.

I have an adopted daughter who was not breastfed and it helps me to just accept that by thinking that I wasn't and I'm OK.

For those who would like to breastfeed but can't for whatever reason, this thread might also be some comfort.

Anyway, got to go to bed now xx

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rachaelsara · 01/04/2008 22:12

I was ff, which might be why I had lots of chest infections as a baby, and why I'm a lardarse now.

MotherFunk · 01/04/2008 22:13

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QuintessentialShadows · 01/04/2008 22:20

I was breastfed for 2 weeks. Then my mum had to return to work, and breastfeeding was no longer an option. I was not fed formula, I was fed diluted heated cows milk.

I subscribe to respiratory infections. I had hayfeever as a teenager constant bouts of tonsillitis, ear infections and bronchitis. I have allergic rhinnitus, chronic sinusities which means I am on antibiotics monthly as I get really ill. I have chest infection fairly regularly, and docs are now thinking I may have asthma.

I dont know if this is related to the milk, or the fact that my father was chain smoking rollertobacco around me daily, together with my uncle who lived with us. I think this is more likely. My mum cleaned the ceilings every spring as they were yellow from tobacco.

We dont smoke. I breastfed both my sons for over a year, my oldest weaned himself off it at 14 months, and my youngest at 16. They both suffer respiratory conditions.

snotbuster · 01/04/2008 22:25

My Mum was one of many (maybe most) women of her generation who was told she 'didn't have enough milk' and 'didn't know how much baby was getting'. So no, I wasn't BF for long but I'm fine. Think she felt a bit when I was feeding DS and going on and on and on about the benefits of it.

PeppermintPatty · 01/04/2008 22:32

I was BF till 6 months, my siblings were BF till 12 months.
From the sounds of things my mum was quite unusual BFing for so long in the 1970s???

MilaMae · 01/04/2008 22:43

I was fed on formula with raw egg and rusk thrown in for good measure. Most of my mothers side was formula fed we're all v healthy, slim, many of us have degrees, my uncle is a medical scientist etc, etc so nope don't feel disadvantaged at all.

Melfish · 01/04/2008 22:44

I was BF for 14 months. I suffered from eczema as a child. My immune system is ok but I get colds/coughs every year and I've got hay fever. My DH was formula fed and never gets colds or flu or chest infections despite both parents smoking round him as a child.

determination · 01/04/2008 23:00

Yes, i do feel like i have missed out in some major brain cell developement. Or is that just what happens when you become a mum??

I think my mum done the best she could with the info she was given at the time. I didn't and dont have any real physical emotional bond with her which i think i would have had given i had been bfed.

I bfed dd1 for 25 months and i will continue to bfed dd2 until she self weans.