Now I've read the next page -
Is it time to move away from the worrying about making women who couldn't / didn't bf feel guilty and move on to pure education, to allow a true choice?
Lots of womens issues seem to become clouded in this way, eg (off subject - sorry) I had a late mc, and never even knew they existed until I had the joy of one. Why didn't I know that your baby could die in the second trimester, not quite as easily as the first, but it was still a risk? I don't consider myself grossly stupid...
MW who attended me after discharge said 'there there dear, why would we want to SPOIL pg for people who didn't have late mc?' (She was being reasonable - I have condensed what she said).
FFS there is an assumption here that we have to make life all flowers and lovely times, instead of being honest with each other. Did knowing the statistics about early mc ruin that, or any of my other pg experiences - no, I enjoyed them all (except when they went wrong).
I think it's the same with the unpalatable information about ff, mentioned in the article. But this attitude just leads to lies thru omission and another generation of babies and women getting a raw deal.
Most women I know carry a secret shame that part (or most) of their mothering is insufficient. They're not doing a good enough job. Not being honest about the pitfalls of ff will not stop (IMHO) women from feeling guilty, but it may stop women from bfing.
How do we knobble the HUGE multi nationals, who have demonstrated time and time again that they don't care about the mums and babies, just about the bottom line and their share-holders?
Is that possible, or should we take really radical action as individuals and just target other women and be completely intolerant of ff ?
Honestly - what could we do to insist this information becomes public knowledge, because it just isn't. If health professionals are having a hard time communicating this to mothers, even when their babies lives are at risk (such as in New Orleans) what hope has the general public of getting access to this information?
I WILL be telling my SIL all this information next time she has a baby - it won't make me popular but it may contribute to her resolution (she's almost as stroppy as I am - lol) and give her the support she needed.