Hi. My 16 week old is ebf. He has his last feed at 8ish then wakes at 11 then every 1.5 hours all night. I don't know of I am making him too dependent on me to fall asleep as I feed him as soon as he fusses because I don't want him to wake dh or Ds. He feeds very frequently in the day as well.
I am really struggling with the tiredness and feel like I am being a crap mum . He was only waking once a night at 3 until a week ago.
Is this just a phase or should I be trying to settle him without feeding? Some of the wakes are really short feeds. I am worried I am making the situation worse.