Not sure this is the right place for this but my four week old DS is mostly bf (might have a formula or ebm feed once a day) and really struggles to bring up his wind. We have to wind him for ages and sometimes nothing will come up. He will then visibly start straining, going red, crying, and will have difficulty feeding. He needs comfort sometimes so I try to latch him on but he will come off, squirm, maybe cry and generally be unhappy. We are struggling to get him down after a night feed bacause he is uncomfortable and his straining stops him sleeping. I give him Infacol & gripe water but have seen no difference. I do wind him between breasts but as I say, sometimes he won't bring anything up.
Has anyone got any ideas? It's really disrupting his sleep, as well as ours, and he is getting so overtired and cranky during the day. I feel so useless as a mum for not being able to help him. All help gratefully received!