Drinking and breastfeeding

[Quootiepie]

Hiya...
Ive had a few and am BFing... what should I do?

when he was having space, he wads chatting online, making out he was tired and needed to go to bed, so I would... then he said he went back online and chatted. He even did this when we got back together and I was out at college and was pregnant. Not full on chat - but still.

I need to go to bed, i need sleep.
I will try to get on tomorrow night, will you come back on again an let us know you are ok?
And think about what you ae doing if you do meet you ex, you have enough things on your mind without divorce.

most the time I like him. I loved my ex, but didnt like him, so thats why I broke it off with him. Sometimes I dont like my DH though...

okies, thanks for chatting x

big hugs and kisses.

thanks

he doesn't sound very mature

I dont think he is... thats what scares me. Im 20, hes 24 but hes mature but immature... He acts mature, kinda is mature but can act immature... in himself. Hes not an idiot or acts like a 20 yr old... just... is not really overly mature...

I don't know what to add now.. you have been through a lot - how long have you been married?>

10 months

ok so I really wouldn't rush in to any decisions - getting married and having a baby are huge strains on a young family - past history notwithstanding. Don't jeopardize things further by meeting your ex - there are other shoulders for support - try and take each day as it comes. I think the birth of your ds(? - i think you said boy) has stirred you up nad you are probably going through a grieving process

I need to go - children to sort out. Get some sleep - being overtired really makes things look worse. please post and update tomorrow -hope you feel better, take care

Maybe... I guess I should wait until I have councilling (can never spell that) and as someone said wait until DS has stopped BFing so my hormones are back in place before we make any rash decisions. Are all marriages "work"???

thankyou xxx

just checked back, ...yes all marriages are work - at times, to be successful and to last long! stick at it - it is worth it!

sorry i disappeared quootie, had to tend to ds and was too late by the time he was back down.

hope things are looking better today, are you still planning on meeting ex?

you okay today Quootie? I think I live kinda near you if you need company/support. xx

yeah... not for anything... you know... just to see eachother/catch up...

hope it goes ok and you have a nice time then.

you feeling a bit more positive in general today?

not overly.... but I guess what will be will be

wish i could be more help babe

How are things? did you meet your ex? how did dh take it?
Want to add as others say marriges do take work, more so when you have a young baby, no sleep, hormones, body issues, stuck at home after stoping work, cant think any more but you get the idea, can put a strain on the best of marrages.

you ok this evening?