I'm baffled. Someone asked where the UK recommendations came from. I happen to know, so I explained and gave a link (several) that answered the question. I said I did not know why other countries seemed not to adhere to them, and speculated this might just be their HCPs - like some of ours - not explaining well.
I said that being told water over 70 deg C 'kills off all the nutrients' which is what you said your midwife said, Lynz, was rubbish and scaremongering....and it is! If you 'kill off all the nutrients' in a bottle of formula then you might as well feed your baby on water alone....and yes, it is scaremongering to make mothers worried about their bottles being reduced to 'no nutrients' because the water is a bit hot. But it was your midwife doing the scaremongering, as I made clear, not you!
Then I am being told, by you, Lynz, that I am somehow laying down the law and not seeing the other person's viewpoint, and wanting a pat on the back.... WTF???? You now say your midwife didn't quite say what you said she told you, so I am even more baffled.
Defensive, much?All I did was answer a question and yes, I did copy and paste links....what do you expect me to do? Copying and pasting means the link comes out correctly spelled and accurate, which is a good thing on a talkboard....only my opinion, of course 
Jeez.