Our little boy is 18 days old and is breastfed. Feeding has been going well, but the frequent night feeds are starting to wear me out, esp now that dp is back at work.
At the moment ds never goes more than three hours between feeds, more often two, and it can be as little as one hour. Typical evening/night at the mo would be 7pm, 9.30pm, midnight, 2am, 3.30am, 5.30-m, 8am- though tbh it's totally random. And he doesn't seem to have a day/night pattern yet- he basically sleeps and feeds 24/7 with a couple of wakeful periods.
He tends to feed one side only- even if he stays awake, he just doesn't tend to want the second side. Luckily he sleeps between feeds (though is increasingly windy to the point where I can't tell if he's awake through wind or hunger at times) and on the whole he is very chilled and doesn't grizzle in the evenings etc. So it's swings and roundabouts I guess...
Our dd (now 2.9) went for 3-4 hr stretches from very early on- though was far more difficult to settle and would vomit a lot, so not much more sleep was had! But a very hungry frequent feeder is a new thing for me.
I realise that probably the only 'solution' is to sit tight and wait for his tummy to get bigger and for the night feeds to space out. But I'm so tired, and wondered if anyone had any advice... Thanks.