How do I stop breastfeeding?

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DD is 17mo and still has a morning, after dinner and a bedtime feed. She also uses me as a dummy in the early hours. I'm starting to feel a bit fed up with it and would like to stop. She seems to be addicted to boob! She has never taken a bottle and has only just started taking a bit if cows milk from a sippy cup, which she will sip on over a period of time rather than gave a good drink iyswim.
Anyone any words of wisdom? Previous attempts to divert from boob to sippy cup have resulted in tears and cup refusal.

Go away on your own for a few days!

I dream of a spa day and big hotel bed to myself with no wriggly toddler!

If you find the answer, do tell me. My 19mo has been dragging his 'milks cushion' around behind me all day and doing Bambi eyes. I am too weak and pathetic to listen to his wretched sobbing when I say no.

I tried telling him it was 'all gone' but he just shook his head at me as if I was an idiot...

It's really daunting isn't it? Can you just drop each feed, ending with the night one? My dcs were 15mths and nearly 14mths respectively when I finished and it took a week of being as gentle as possible, but not weakening. Lots of cuddles from me and crying from them. Dc1 ended up with a dummy (which she'd never accepted before) and dc2 with a bottle of cows milk. Not ideal, but they were off of me!