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Infant feeding

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Mother's reaction to BF

10 replies

showtunesgirl · 09/05/2012 20:19

My mum and dad saw DD when she was 6 days old and then they have been abroad until the weekend just gone.

My mum bottle fed all of us and when she found out that I am still EBF DD who is now almost six months old she said: Oh that's nice isn't it? Must be nice for her to be breastfed.

No point to this really. Just Grin.

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BumbleBee2011 · 09/05/2012 20:27

That is :o of her

Mealiepudding · 09/05/2012 21:06

That's really lovely.

showtunesgirl · 09/05/2012 22:41

I just wasn't expecting it as my mum has always been a bit shy of her own body as well.

Later on in the day we went out for lunch and I fed DD right next to my Dad who I also thought might be a bit mmm but it was all fine. :)

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Belmo · 09/05/2012 22:47

Aww :)

fhdl34 · 09/05/2012 23:09

That's really great, it really makes a difference when family are supportive and it's nice that your mum doesn't feel it's a slight on her own parental choices that yours are different as I think sometimes people can.

maples · 10/05/2012 00:03

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showtunesgirl · 10/05/2012 00:15

Just to add, this wasn't just a generational thing I was a bit mmm about but a cultural one as well so am doubly Grin.

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Pastabee · 10/05/2012 14:03

That's great showtunes. It's lovely when parents respect and support your choices. My mum always thinks I should do everything the same way she did.... I was breastfed for 6 months therefore she thinks I should stop now DD is 26 weeks and has always thought I'm mad not to 'give her 10 minutes each side every 4 hours'.

Enjoy having your parents around again.

autumnchild · 10/05/2012 17:22

my mum has definately changed her opinion over the time i have been bfing my DD - originally, as my sister and I were bottle fed, she was fairly anti-bfing, but she now realises its a good thing. When i decided to bf until DD's 1st birthday, she was in favour of it Grin - not what i was expecting not that i would take any notice what she says but its still nice. i must admit, i've never plucked up courage to bf in front of my parents though Hmm!

showtunesgirl · 10/05/2012 18:52

Unfortunately my parents are off again in two weeks. :(

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