This will be the forth time i have had it now. My problem is that i get it every time my dd decides she is going to change the frequency of her feeds. she is 20 months old. I had it the first time when i went back to uni and she went from feeding lots through the day to not at all. They became very engorged and sore etc. My question is ... how do i stop it happening every time she changes how often she feeds. is this just going to happen every time?