Dropping bedtime bf for a 13mo - does it need replacing with cows milk?

[UserNameAngst]

This feels like a stupid question but I'd appreciate some input! DS is 13mo and for several months has had a bf first thing in the morning, a bf before bath, and occasionally a feed in the afternoon. I've decided to start to gradually wean him and am starting with the bedtime feed.

Last night, rather than feed him before his bath, I offered him a cup of milk. He had a few sips but wasn't that interested. The rest of bedtime was fine, he didn't seem bothered about the lack of bf and slept all night. (He was v keen on the morning bf tho).

Tonight, same routine, but now he actively batted the milk away saying no. Again, didn't seem bothered and has gone to sleep fine.

I understand he needs a pint of milk a day; should I just assume he is getting that through the morning feed and the dairy in his diet?

My DD self-weaned at about 13mo and never had milk at bedtime. TBH I thinks it's better if they don't, better for their teeth. You can try and fit the milk in during the day.

from 1 year the minimum recommended is 350mls and not all needs to be in drink form as they can get the same nutrients through foods. If he doesnt want the milk at bedtime just offer it sometime during the day instead.