I have had half a glass of celebratory champagne since DS' birth, but nothing else...haven't fancied it, but am just now getting to the point where I fancy a glass of wine. I'm confused about the breastfeeding rules here - the pregnancy ones are straightforward, but everyone just seems to say 'everything in moderation' with bf. My concern is DS wants to cluster feed in the evenings and then has a couple of huge feeds in the night, so if I have a glass of wine with my tea that'd be just before he wants to feed the most. Should I abstain completely or would a small glass occasionally be OK, even though he will want to feed soon afterwards? I don't want to go down the path of lunchtime drinking! 