After 4 weeks of nightmare bf'ing we have finally got the hang of it so I wanted to post in the hope of encouraging anyone ready to give up.
I have literally bawled through feeds from the pain while DH held my head to stop me screaming, I tried everything from painkillers & nipple shields to expressing and bottle feeding EBM. The whole experience was hellish but somehow, suddenly, it just started working a few days ago.
I don't really have any advice but if you feel inconsolable and desperate trying to establish bf'ing then maybe just do whatever you can to get through the next feed... it might just be the last bad one. xx