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When will the biting stop or is this the end of BF???

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lovely74 · 31/08/2010 11:15

Hi,
my DS is just over 10 months and has been biting me during feeds for about 4 weeks now. He's getting his top teeth so he is teething at the moment, which I know makes the situation worse, but I'm coming to the end of my tether!
I've read the threads on here and Kellymom with advice on how to stop it. When he bites I take him off and say "no that hurts!" and refuse to put him back on for at least a minute. I've also hugged him into me so he lets go, but he doesn't tend to hold on when he does it, just nips towards then end of a feed.
At the moment he has a long feed first thing in the morning, another before his morning nap, one mid afternoon and one early evening. He also "snacks" during the day when he just comes over and has a little blast so to speak. He drinks hardly any water (I'm also working on this) so BM is his main source of liquid. He's doing well with his solids so I don't think his milk needs dropping just yet. He has a FF at bedtime.

If we have a bad day now with biting I find I am tense during each feed, ready to put him off at a moments notice, it's horrible. Thankfully he generally sleeps through the night but a few nights ago when he needed settling (when generally he'd be offered the breast) I had to get DH to give him the bottle as I couldn't face being bitten again.

My DH (not very clued up) thinks this is natures way of telling me to stop. But I don;t want to, I really don;t. I want to feed for as long as I can as it is the most logical and healthy thing for him.
But I can't cope with getting bitten any longer, it's horrible. AND I upset him when I stop him feeding and say "no" firmly.

What do I do????????

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lovely74 · 11/09/2010 07:57

For the benefit of anybody who does a search for this problem at any point.....

DS has stopped biting! He bit for about 4 weeks in total bit it seems that once his second top tooth was through the gum that was it (hhe's done it once but that's all) So looks like it was all to do with the teething. I'll have to wait and see what happens when the next lot of teeth come through but at the moment it looks as though I can carry on BF when I was so close to stopping.
So persevere, you'll get through it!

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WoTmania · 11/09/2010 08:13

Apols if this has already been said

I knew someone whose DC was a biter. She used to keep a finger on the baby's chin and push on it to stop DC nursing as soon as she felt an imminent bite. Could that help do you think?

WoTmania · 11/09/2010 08:15

oh, you're sorted. :)

sazlocks · 11/09/2010 10:55

Glad to find this thread as was about to post something similar. My DS is 7.5 months and very snotty so am sure his top teeth are coming through. Am a tad frustrated at being woken up several times a night to be shouted at in baby language and then bitten repeatedly as I try and feed him Smile! He particualrly favours biting one side more than the other and I am a bit sore. I am desperate to carry on feeding so will try some of the tips on here.
Glad you are sorted lovely74

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