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Sevenoaks?

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Beachcomber74 · 24/07/2026 13:10

Anyone with recent experience of Sevenoaks? Is it very tough to get a place? What sort of scores do the accept?

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sailingsunshine · 24/07/2026 14:38

I believe a boarding place may be easier than a day place. IB is tougher than A levels so your dc needs to be an all rounder.

CakesofPan · 10/08/2026 15:42

What do you mean by scores? It’s academically selective, we were told 120+ CAT. They do ISEB and their own papers too.

SchoolsMum · 11/08/2026 15:26

You haven't said what year of entry you are talking about - year 7, 9 or 12? I know the school well as my DD went there and left last year. Children need high scores to get in there - minimum 120 across the board at CAT4, ideally over 130. It's a fast paced academic atmosphere and children are expected to keep up. IB tougher than A Level as it's a 6 subject discipline also with extended essays. It's not a school for the dreamer or a child that needs hand holding, but they get excellent results if the environment is right for the child.

Beachcomber74 · 17/08/2026 08:22

Thanks all for your replies. I meant test scores ie CAT which you said would be 120+ my DS looking at joining in Year 10 when they only have a few vacancies but he is a strong all rounder & it would suit him.

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sailingsunshine · 17/08/2026 10:02

@Beachcomber74, it depends on the ability of the other candidates taking the year 10 entry exam. The bottom line is the year group needs to be full so they will take the most able candidates to fill the available spaces. If you want a boarding place that will no doubt help.

Runningupthathill1980 · 19/08/2026 00:26

Beachcomber74 · 24/07/2026 13:10

Anyone with recent experience of Sevenoaks? Is it very tough to get a place? What sort of scores do the accept?

We know it well. Its a school with no soul and very little character. From our prep, the children (and parents) that seem to gravitate towards it are those that are rather one-dimensional. Aademically focused, with little breadth or personality. They mistake academic ability for being interesting, sophisticated and socially impressive. Socially tone-deaf and rather boring. Consequently, it's not especially tough to get in if DC is a consistent 120+ SAS, given that strong co curricular and personality carry little weight in the admissions.

Beachcomber74 · 19/08/2026 09:08

Thank you for your insight. Really useful.

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compoundingisasuperpower · 19/08/2026 09:32

One dimensional children - wow! I also know it well and what I would say is that, like most academic schools, you will find some children that are purely academic, but I would say most have other “dimensions” in music (including JDs, nyo, nco, nyc etc as well as county for some) drama, art and sport (sailing in particular). In fact some even are very academic and also good at multiple extracurriculars. Have a look at an old copy of the sennockian or the art exhibition that they hold in London annually, for an idea of what the children get up to in a year.

CosyTraybake · 22/08/2026 17:48

Runningupthathill1980 · 19/08/2026 00:26

We know it well. Its a school with no soul and very little character. From our prep, the children (and parents) that seem to gravitate towards it are those that are rather one-dimensional. Aademically focused, with little breadth or personality. They mistake academic ability for being interesting, sophisticated and socially impressive. Socially tone-deaf and rather boring. Consequently, it's not especially tough to get in if DC is a consistent 120+ SAS, given that strong co curricular and personality carry little weight in the admissions.

Sevenoaks is full of very bright, adaptable, polished young people. That is not a defect. Nor is the fact that many of them can achieve excellent results without spending every waking hour grinding away evidence that they are somehow “one-dimensional”.

Calling intellectually serious children “dry” or “boring” is such a tired little trope.
Some of the people who go on to make the most important contributions in science, medicine, engineering, mathematics and the arts are exactly the sort of children who get sneered at for being “too academic” by adults determined to elevate social polish into some higher form of intelligence. It often isn’t. Quite frequently, it is just polish.

I have met plenty of the inverse too: immaculate manners, sporty, charming, socially fluent, endlessly described as “well-rounded” — and then rather less impressive in adult life when actual judgement, intelligence, originality and usefulness are required. Some have been so thoroughly trained to confuse presentation with substance that they seem genuinely bewildered when the wider world eventually declines to share their own estimation of themselves.

The best schools produce both polish and substance. Sevenoaks, in my experience, does exactly that.

Runningupthathill1980 · 23/08/2026 08:58

CosyTraybake · 22/08/2026 17:48

Sevenoaks is full of very bright, adaptable, polished young people. That is not a defect. Nor is the fact that many of them can achieve excellent results without spending every waking hour grinding away evidence that they are somehow “one-dimensional”.

Calling intellectually serious children “dry” or “boring” is such a tired little trope.
Some of the people who go on to make the most important contributions in science, medicine, engineering, mathematics and the arts are exactly the sort of children who get sneered at for being “too academic” by adults determined to elevate social polish into some higher form of intelligence. It often isn’t. Quite frequently, it is just polish.

I have met plenty of the inverse too: immaculate manners, sporty, charming, socially fluent, endlessly described as “well-rounded” — and then rather less impressive in adult life when actual judgement, intelligence, originality and usefulness are required. Some have been so thoroughly trained to confuse presentation with substance that they seem genuinely bewildered when the wider world eventually declines to share their own estimation of themselves.

The best schools produce both polish and substance. Sevenoaks, in my experience, does exactly that.

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I think that slightly misses my point. I’m not suggesting that intellectually serious or highly academic children are “dry”, nor that academic excellence and personality are mutually exclusive. Quite the opposite.

My point is that there are a number of exceptionally successful schools where the academic outcomes are every bit as strong, but where academic attainment sits alongside a much more deliberate emphasis on character, confidence, leadership, sport, music, drama and broader interests.

Sevenoaks unquestionably attracts a particular type of family for whom academics come first. In my experience, some attach rather more social significance to academic ability than it actually confers, as though being exceptionally clever automatically also makes someone interesting, sophisticated or socially impressive. It doesn’t.

Take two equally academically capable children, but one also excels in music, sport, drama, debating or leadership and has strong EQ, confidence, humour and curiosity. To my mind, that child simply brings more to the table. That isn’t anti-academic; it is recognising that academic ability is only part of the person.

And in a world increasingly shaped by AI, I think that matters more, not less. Judgement, creativity, communication, resilience, leadership and emotional intelligence are going to become increasingly valuable. I don’t think character formation is one of Sevenoaks’ defining strengths, and for me that is a dropped ball.

I do accept that if co-ed is non-negotiable, particularly outside London, the shortlist narrows considerably and Sevenoaks becomes part of a potential pool. However, there are stronger co-ed alternatives, though, and if single-sex is an option for either a DS or DD, the field opens up considerably to schools delivering equally elite academics alongside much greater breadth and character development.

Sevenoaks is clearly a very good school. I have no axe to grind with it. I just find it bland and rather unnecessarily on some shortlists when there are other schools achieving the same academic excellence, while producing more rounded, interesting and socially confident young people.

compoundingisasuperpower · 24/08/2026 09:17

You clearly value the historic school framework of character-building and centuries-old traditions, which is a fantastic model for many families.

However, as I mentioned previously, the breadth and extracurricular character development at Sevenoaks are absolutely there. Add to that the school’s compulsory service element - which means weekly community and charitable work for every single student - and you have a framework explicitly designed to build the empathy and EQ you feel is missing. It just happens within a more international and inclusive-minded culture, rather than a traditional prep-school mould.

I’d also argue that the academic structure itself addresses your exact point about future-proofing for an AI world. The IB - particularly through Theory of Knowledge (TOK), the extended essay, and rigorous oral defences - develops the exact critical judgement, communication, and adaptability you rightly say are so vital. Critical thinking is a core component there.

Ultimately, what makes a young person 'interesting' or 'rounded' is highly subjective. Sevenoaks has a very specific DNA that clearly isn’t for everyone, but to dismiss its community as bland simply because it prioritises a different ethos is rather unfair or, if you prefer, “not very sporting”.

CakesofPan · 27/08/2026 20:18

@Runningupthathill1980that’s not my experience at all. You sound a bit disgruntled, possibly? Cocurricular activities are incredibly important for Admissions as is a sparky, curious personality. Parents are serious about academics but in my experience they’re interesting and friendly with some fascinating occupations - foreign service, journalists etc. There is no pretentiousness. For the kids, it’s cool to be clever, there’s some real quirky characters and neurodivergent children account for about 25% of the student body.

Runningupthathill1980 · 28/08/2026 08:00

CakesofPan · 27/08/2026 20:18

@Runningupthathill1980that’s not my experience at all. You sound a bit disgruntled, possibly? Cocurricular activities are incredibly important for Admissions as is a sparky, curious personality. Parents are serious about academics but in my experience they’re interesting and friendly with some fascinating occupations - foreign service, journalists etc. There is no pretentiousness. For the kids, it’s cool to be clever, there’s some real quirky characters and neurodivergent children account for about 25% of the student body.

Certainly not disgruntled, we never considered or applied to Sevenoaks as we wanted all-boys. DS had unconditional offers from Eton, Radley, Harrow and Tonbridge.

Thank you though for rather neatly illustrating the sort of attitude I was referring to, suggesting I must be disgruntled simply by expressing an opinion about the school, based on recent experiences (of DC/parents who have chosen it). Something that the OP requested.

I’m sure Sevenoaks has some quirky and interesting pupils. I just don’t think it’s a school one would naturally shortlist for a particularly distinctive character, soul or a school that has an emphasis on developing those qualities in a child. Clearly the right school for some; to me, just a little bland.

Runningupthathill1980 · 03/09/2026 13:03

compoundingisasuperpower · 28/08/2026 09:02

Oh dear. I have attached a link to last year’s news from the bland children (apologies, this year’s magazine is not yet available) and another link to their bland art.

https://viewer.joomag.com/sennockian-2024-25-2025/0140303001762358836?short&

https://viewer.joomag.com/sevenoaks-25-ib-art-exhibition/0492023001740740836?short&

This post rather proves my point. Every top school has excellent art, music, drama, sport and a huge breadth of co-curricular activity. Nobody is disputing that.
What is peculiarly Sevenoaks is the sales pitch from some of the parents; this slightly self-satisfied need to convince everyone that the school and its pupils are uniquely quirky, interesting and cool.
From the outside, that can come across as a bit smug and rather try-hard. And plenty of people know the reality is rather less exceptional than the mythology, particularly when there are so many other excellent schools offering just as much, often with a stronger sense of identity and character.
The harder the sales pitch, the less convincing it becomes. None of that means Sevenoaks isn’t an excellent school, it clearly is, and for the right child and family it will be a very good fit.

compoundingisasuperpower · 03/09/2026 18:09

😁good show @Runningupthathill1980; I have to say that you have been terrific value!

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