Hi all, just wondering what products you use for 4c hair that tames the coils? I'm currently using Mielle. She seems to have different strands of hair at the front of her hair compared to the back. She is wearing the hair as I don't think she'll be patient enough for us to braid it as she hates her hair being touched. Mine is similar but forever in braids or cornrows. Any suggestions as to what I can use to soften her hair? Thanks in advance 🙏