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"Ran her fingers through her hair"

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Malahaha · 28/10/2020 06:49

Hello again! I have a question: it's about a mixed-race girl with short-ish, frizzy hair that tangles easily. I'm like that, but my hair is fairly "soft" and I often "run my fingers" through it without a problem, though I might find a tangle or two. It's like combing it with my fingers.

This girl's hair is harder to "run her fingers through", as a white person would do, say. Can you suggest an alternative thing she'd do?

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Ablackrussian · 28/10/2020 18:37

Detangler comb?

CorianderLord · 28/10/2020 18:45

Context? Am assuming it's for a book/creative writing?

Is she frustrated, distracted etc?

plessuregirle · 28/10/2020 18:51

Eh?

maggiethecat · 28/10/2020 23:03

if it's for a writing exercise I'm thinking something like "fingered her curls" although that might more suit a trashy novel Grin

PickAChew · 28/10/2020 23:10

I'm white but coarse and wavy (hair, not me)

Running fingers through my hair is a world of pain, as I have a lot of hair. For an absent minded gesture, if that's what you're after, I find that I twist my hair between or around my fingers. Or I might find a ringlet and twang it. If I mean business I simply grab it all with both hands, wrap it in a scrunch, then swear because half of it pinged out again.

Malahaha · 29/10/2020 07:02

@CorianderLord

Context? Am assuming it's for a book/creative writing?

Is she frustrated, distracted etc?

Yes, this exactly! It's for a novel. And yes, out of frustration.
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Malahaha · 29/10/2020 07:04

@PickAChew

I'm white but coarse and wavy (hair, not me)

Running fingers through my hair is a world of pain, as I have a lot of hair. For an absent minded gesture, if that's what you're after, I find that I twist my hair between or around my fingers. Or I might find a ringlet and twang it. If I mean business I simply grab it all with both hands, wrap it in a scrunch, then swear because half of it pinged out again.

These are all good options, and maggiethecat, I think "fingered" is in the right direction but a little too suggestive! Wink
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SmileEachDay · 29/10/2020 17:36

Raked her fingers through her curls?

GreyBeeplus3 · 22/01/2026 18:48

Malahaha
How's about
She ran her hand over the top of her head
Then tucked the tendrils coiling softly by each temple neatly behind their corresponding ear?
Clunky I know, but you get the picture

JesssIsCrazzzzzy · 28/01/2026 11:50

Def try a detangler

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